I only ask these things when im uncertain witch is not often

kinda sound retarted, Girls never want to be mean.. so realize this, there are more fish in the sea

hmm. What I would do if I was in that situation is, I would go do something fun with her, and bring her back to my house. When we get there I would say something like "Aren't you gonna walk me to my door?" and once we got there I would say "I gotta wake up early but...O.K. I guess you can come in"(this is great because your saying it as if she asked to come in)

and go from there(I assume you have a little experience)

Before you ask her out, when you're hanging out with her and you think she is comfortable with you ALONE.... play with her hair, and look into her eyes and say "your hair is so soft" Then keep talking/playing with her hair. If she lets you do this, that means she is open to the idea of kissing you, so if you are playing with her hair, go in for the kill--err kiss and then ask her to chill with you.

You have to be willing to accept the fact that you could get rejected, and you have to be able to just shrug it off and go find a different girl. Once you have that mindset things ought to come easier for you. Don't let it bother you if you get rejected.

hope these easy and small tips help ya out