Ok heres my problem. I really like this girl and ive told her and shes told me that she likes me too, but shes had a bf for 2 years and doesnt wanna leave him. I cant really figure out why shes stayin with him. She calls and txts me all the time(were talking over 3500 received txts a month all from her). The only reason i can think of that she wouldnt leave him is cause shes had sex with him and shes the least slutty girl you will ever meet. Hes left her in front of school crying and doesnt talk to her when shes sick and in general hes a dick to her. I would do anything to win this girl over i just dont know what to do i normally dont go after a girl that requires any effort on my part, but this girls worth the effort.

Anyone have any ideas on what i need to do to get this girl???

Rule #1: If you want the girl don't become her "guy friend" or you'll forever be just that. Remember, girls are emotional creatures. You need to get into her head and make her feel beautiful and smart.

Rule #2: Each time you communicate with her give her a complement abut anything. The point here is to make her feel good about herself. Eventually she will associate good feelings with you.

Rule #3: Follow the two rules above and you will succeed.

This girl prefers to be good friends with a guy before she dates them. All her boyfriends were her best friends before she started dating them. and i already do rule #2 thanks for the help though

That's the problem with that girl. You need to be different from the other guys or she'll eventually think of you as "just like all the rest". Trust me bro, I've been around. You can not under any circumstances let your guard down and have her see you as "just a friend". Here's my point... how many times have you see really hot babes with butt ugly guys? I bet many times. Why is this? Well it's really simple... we guys are visual creatures. All we need is a hot babe and who cares what comes out of her mouth. Girls on the other had are literal. If you say the right things the big zits, the crooked teeth, the tire around your waist all of a sudden become invisible.

I've have a few friends who are hugely obese and have models as girlfriends.

He's actually kind of right. Some really hot girls will go for guys based on personality and not care about their looks. But there are still those girls that are really snobby and only go for hot guys.

My opinion for her staying with him is kind of what you said, Illegal. She might've had sex with him already, and she's been dating him for 2 years, so chances are she's fallen pretty hard for him. They say you fall hardest for your first, too. So even though he's a dick to her, she thinks "But I love him" and that will make everything alright. But it won't. Eventually she'll get tired of his shit and realize what a great guy you are to her, and that she shouldn't be with that one guy at all. Just stick in there, show her you're committed, and good things should happen.

My advice, fight the kid kick the shit out of him and take his chick. That is what I would do but it is'nt a very logical or legal way to do it so

You should probably take other peoples advice.

Thats a terrible idea

I was basically just stating what I would do in that sort of situation. I said I don't suggest him actually doing that.

I was in a situation a lot like this one, the girl and I were both 16, and her boyfriend was 22. he treats her like shit. he refused to fuck her for a while and she was all depressed, so she decided she wanted me, but she didnt want to actually cheat so we just engaged in nightly mutual masturbation and exchanged nude photos of ourselves and whatnot, she said she would leave him for me...then she suddenly stopped talking to me and started spreading shit about me, and shes a complete bitch to me, idk what the problem is but hydrocodone helps

wow....that sux. slap a ***