Every time you interact wit a person you create a sequence of events that effect that persons life. A chain effect. So the people you interact with are forever changed. Their future, their life has been altered by this interaction. This whole existence is a sequence of interactions played out, a complex and intricate web. The web of life.

interesting..never thought of that, and i wouldn't disagree. But it makes me wonder..
what if we met/interacted with a person who becomes/is someone we care for hugely..their whole life is changed..well not in apparant ways..but in comparison to how their lives would have been if you/me/he/she/whoever had never met/interacted with that person..but how can you compare two different futures unless you was to be psychic..okay, the point i'm tryna make is..what if a person you really cared for's life had/is/gonna change for the worse..would you have chosen to never met them or be selfish and keep things as they are..the way you like it. I know it's weird as you can't really choose not to meet someone..it's something that has already happened but i was just curious so which would you choose? to have never met them to make the other party's life a better one or keep things as they are..note:this analogy is not limited to sorta intimate/sexual kinda r'ship..it can be family or anyother thing

Hmm.. A Long question.
Well if you were presented to interact with this person, and you chose too then you are liable for anything that might happen during this ineteraction. So maybe you were supposed to meet this person and experience what you experienced. But rest assured that being with this person and having that choice, has changed you, if you had not interacted with the person you are talking about, would you still be the same person. That goes back to the chain effect, every person we choose to interact with changes their lives and you'res. So its really impossible to think "what if i never met this person." because for all we know, meeting this person might have put a sequence of events around, and stopping you from being fatally killed in a car crash. We have no way of truly grasping how we as individuals change the world around us. Maybe not "Totally Significantly" thats gonna be recorded in text books, but we change who we interact with and who we choose to be around. Damn im getting to deep into this, im going to stop.

hhaha..

That pretty much answered my Q..

yup, i just reread my Q, and i guess it was a long question..wow i went off on a tangent there (note: i seem to do alot of that )

Its crazy shit and hurts my brain to think about stuff like that, that's why i don't.

Good for u, merf

"Its a Wonderful Life" anyone?

i'm glad its gonna be christmas soon cause they never fail to show that movie on tv and i love it!

Yes it is a good lesson for everyone to learn, that when stuff gets tough in life shut off your brain and don't think about it :P

haha and then the more advance lesson to turn off the brain then turn it to some old skool cartoons, like me i prefer bugs bunny outwitting elmer fudd

lol what? I dont think i have ever done that..