WOW i never said sleep wit sumone 2 pay ya bills....lol that came from ur own mind...lol i just said if ur with him mostly for money just find sumone else...That u temp trust...lol i mean im guessing u trusted him at first nd now ya dnt so just move on....tehe ;p

"For fuck's sake."

Honestly, he's your boyfriend, not your husband. You're thinking too hard about this. Computer is the wrong place to look initially because it's too hard. get his cell first, look for names/numbers you don't recognise. Then scope those.

You should just break up with him if you're sure hes cheating on you. Just keep a close eye on him, try spending more time with him and maybe he will get a unsuspected call.

Boyfriend/Husband what does it matter? Husband is a piece of paper & actually he was my husband & I filed for divorce. He pursue me for 2 years thereafter, then I took him back cause I still care for him & I need help paying bills. He promise me he be straight w/me & I don't believe he is. I don't want to waste my time if he not being straight. How am I going to know, well, that's where I need to get into his computer, then keylogger (I guess) I was actually going to make him a part of my assests, but don't want to if he a cheater. I already did the cell phone deal over 2 years ago & this was 1st discovery of cheating. I am very picky and found alot of losers over those 2 years. My son has been greatly effected from not only this past situation, but the death of my parents & his natural father commiting suicide. I really didn't want to spill my guts as it is personal & drawn out w/many factors. I don't appreciate insults as in order to insult someone, you would have to know the facts prior to voiceing an opinion. This is not only for myself, but for my 14 yo son who wants me to be happy along w/himself by having a decent Stepdad/boyfriend again.
All I want to know is how to gain access if anyone has a clue in here on how to get in. That's all for now.

This isn't the place to find your answers, it's the Anarchistcookbook. You wont find much for this topic, I would suggest you keep a close eye on him, and sneek on his comp when he goes to the washroom.

You're an idiot, and selfish to boot. if you're going to let your two-time-loser boyfriend affect your child's welfare and happiness then you need to pull your head out of your ass AND out of his. If he's importqant to you; then don't compromise it. If it means your child is happy then you put the fuck up, smile, and say "Hello darling" EVERY FUCKING MORNING your deadbeat partner walks in the door. Sometimes being a parent means hardening the fuck up and sacrificing yourself for your kid. If you don't think you can do that, then please, for your son's sake; just pick up and leave him.

just dump him? its not that hard, life goes on even when you're alone.

Actually we were married. I have checked the cell phone. I guess noone in here can actually help, thanks anyway

Well this is the Anarchistcookbook, not really a place to let out your emotions, even the internet is not such a great place.

My hopes were to find help w/gaining a password. It seems in here people don't like to help based on certain particular motives. This is the only reason y I write. When I wrote detailed info. it did not post, therefore I posted another. Inital onset of my question was not of gaining advise other than access to a computer.
Like I said b4, Thank you anyway
But I sorry so many know my shit w/out real f....... help