Ladder theory

[AssRot]

http://www.laddertheory.com/

I want all of you to read long and hard. This is straight up motha fuckin fact.

[deathlord888]

ya i think it is true

[a2thae]

we've discussed this already with num. as well as tucker max, some of it contains points of validity though.

[WeirdD]

yep 100% true

[freetibet]

I think some of its true, especially the just friends part.

not all of it though...

[tmz]

yeah.
basically.

[rsdbaby]

www.realsocialdynamics.com

fo sho

[deathlord888]

http://www.demonoid.com/files/details/1830113/9687051/?rel=1238108345
http://www.demonoid.com/files/details/1846701/3229017/?rel=1238108343
im dling it

[rsdbaby]

Check out www.bitseduce.com, its a torrent site specifically for this kind of material. They have open registration most of the time, sometimes you have to be referred, it just depends on when you register. They have mandatory download ratios that you have to maintain or they boot you, I just create a new account every 3 or 4 months, download all the new stuff and ditch the account. But if your serious about getting this part of your life handled then RSD is definitely the way to go. The main instructor of RSD was one of the first students of Mystery from Vh1's "The Pickup Artist" years ago. Eh Im rambling again. Its good shit just check it out.

[deathlord888]

ya you sent me and invite i will get you a demonoid invite

[rsdbaby]

I dont have an active account. Keep trying to create a new account though, I think they boot all the old accounts at midnight each day, so try shortly after that.

[deathlord888]

ok what timezone are you in lol? it is 9:47 pm here

[a2thae]

All of those sites pretty much boil down to the same thing...if you paid money for that shit, I just laugh at you.

[rsdbaby]

Hes using a free torrent downloader. Ive never paid for any of the material as Ive been provided most of it for free by the owner to review and give advice on. If you like it then use it, if not then delete it.

Im in the same timezone as you (EST)

[freetibet]

I don't think watching a video will help you get girls...

[Chiri]

New and improved ACB anyone? Check out the link in my signature. Give it a go if you're still around right now Freetibet. You're a pretty good debater and everything.

[freetibet]

no i'm not

[rsdbaby]

Just watching the video isnt going to help you the same way just reading a textbook doesnt help you. If you put the information to use and internalize the data then with practice and guidance youll see a huge increase in your social ability.

[freetibet]

I find that knowing the right people helps you get girls easier than guide books and videos

[rsdbaby]

For the vast majority of people they will find the person they marry through their social circle (or "knowing the right people" as you say) but RSD and a few other groups teach a method of walking up to a complete stranger getting a phone number, make out, or whatever. Alot of it is centered around fixing how you think about social status and women in general. Its really amazing stuff, Ive been following it for the last couple years and honestly RSD's Blueprints is by leaps and bounds the best material out there for fixing this area of your life.

[freetibet]

ya i usually end up with girls in my "social circle"

i've gotten dates with random girls before, but it never seems to go anywhere

[rsdbaby]

The Ladder Theory is kind of right. The one critical problem is that they dont examine what causes money, power, and looks to attract women. Its not the surface level power or money that attracts them, its the confidence that comes from money and power that really attracts them.

These RSD guys are solid. They have years of experience, they've given out advice in magazines such as Maxim, Elle, and a bunch of other ones. They've been giving "bootcamps" where they demonstrate everything live "in field" every weekend for the last 9 years every weekend, all over the world.

Eh, Im a terrible salesman. Just download Blueprints from a free torrent downloader, check it out, if it works for you then cool, if not then just delete it. In the mean time check out some of the articles on the site and some of the forum postings.

[a2thae]

Ladder theory as a metaphor is right, literally though it contains some validity, but i disagree with some aspects.

[freetibet]

what do you disagree with?

[a2thae]

It is entirely possible to be friends with a girl you find attractive, it's about being in control of your sex drive, even if just barely.

Where it says 50% is money in the rating system I 100% disagree. It's more or less about that addictive emotional rush called attraction, which they have at 40%, but broken up into pieces, and have looks at 50% of that 40% which is again WRONG. Of course looks help. But it's not 50% of attraction.

When it comes down to it, I hold the firm belief that at the end of the day charm > money. And also not all women are bitches, there are all types of generalizations though...

and im too tired to think of where else I disagree

[deathlord888]

ya but like that one example. if you find her attractive and are friends would you say no if she wanted to sleep with you?

[Maggotsfriend]

I need to read rule 1. I suck etc.

[a2thae]

ya but like that one example. if you find her attractive and are friends would you say no if she wanted to sleep with you?

Yeah, I'd say no. It's already happened a couple of times, i don't cheat (cough anymore cough). But then again, that's just me, I'd say somethin like, "Sorry, I don't want our friendship to be lost over something like this, and I already have a girl...we can still be friends though" or something sappy like that.

Try not to violate rule 1 maggot. Consider this a warning.

[deathlord888]

o ya cheating is not cool. i ment if you were single

[a2thae]

If I was single, and she was a friend I found attractive? I'd still definitely subtly reject her at first. Then I'd qualify her to see if she was girlfriend material as well, and then well, she wouldn't be a friend anymore. But if I still considered her a friend, I doubt it, I don't date friends anymore.

Not sure if that makes sense...