Ehhhhhhhhh

[Warpurlgis]

I just broke up with someone that I was with for more then a year. We pretty much broke up on good terms before we were at each others throats. I don't know she wants to be friends with "benefits", not really sure about this, anyone actually found this to work?

Feels kinda weird being single.... She fucking got pissed cause I got over it fast, I mean she meant A LOT to me but I.'m not the kinda person who sits and mopes about things cause they hurt. She thinks I didn't really care about her. I gotta fix this problem because she befriended a lot of my friends and they'll probably bitch at me because 1. Girls make things more then they are when they are upset. 2.My friends tend to have a soft spot for her.

Basically venting and asking for suggestions.

[a2thae]

Eh, if anyone gives you shit, just be like "resilience is a good thing," I'm not one to break down in public and scream "WHY GOD, WHY DID THIS HAVE TO HAPPEN, WHY DID YOU RIP OUT MY SOUL, you gave me a taste of heaven, and now you give me a taste of hell"...then be like "I'ma just do what I can, and be on my way"

It'll subside eventually, I've never been in your situation, but I'd probably do that, but make it into some type of joke.

[Ghostfacekiller]

The problem with the whole friends with "benefits" it that your going to get back together and then break up, then get back together, then break up, so on and so forth or someone is going to get hurt. She will think its deeper than you and you dont think the same and you will get a new girlfreind or sleep with some one else and hurt her or she will do the same.

[freetibet]

I went through something like that once.

I didn't care for like 3 months, and then it started to eat away at me...

scary huh?

edit*
btw my situation was much more fucked up than yours, so i bet you'll be fine.

The problem with the whole friends with "benefits" it that your going to get back together and then break up, then get back together, then break up, so on and so forth or someone is going to get hurt. She will think its deeper than you and you dont think the same and you will get a new girlfreind or sleep with some one else and hurt her or she will do the same.

I second that

[Ghostfacekiller]

the idea of having a fuck buddy is great but it makes it all to easy for you to cheat when you get back with a diffrent girl, she may know this and might go out of her way to fuck you then tell your girlfriend

[freetibet]

the idea of having a fuck buddy is great but it makes it all to easy for you to cheat when you get back with a diffrent girl, she may know this and might go out of her way to fuck you then tell your girlfriend

That seems very specific...

you went through something like that i take it?

[Ghostfacekiller]

That seems very specific...

you went through something like that i take it?

yea, bitches be trifling.
Long story short, me and my girlfreind where fighting, my fuckbuddy called. we did the dirt, she took pictures and mailed them to my GF at the time.

[freetibet]

yea, bitches be trifling.
Long story short, me and my girlfreind where fighting, my fuckbuddy called. we did the dirt, she took pictures and mailed them to my GF at the time.

took pictures? and you didn't notice? lol

fuckbuddies are good if you're single, but not if your trying to go steady

[drugfeind]

dude just tell her your taking anti depressants. they ussually make you not show ANY emotions

[Warpurlgis]

Eh, if anyone gives you shit, just be like "resilience is a good thing," I'm not one to break down in public and scream "WHY GOD, WHY DID THIS HAVE TO HAPPEN, WHY DID YOU RIP OUT MY SOUL, you gave me a taste of heaven, and now you give me a taste of hell"...then be like "I'ma just do what I can, and be on my way"

It'll subside eventually, I've never been in your situation, but I'd probably do that, but make it into some type of joke.

Lol I would scream all that shit accept everyone would know I was lying. Plus I sold my soul to my friend for my CD back and there is no way to get it back lol :( I guess the problem was that every time one of my relationships end I treat it like a smack in the you know, it hurts for a couple seconds then it gone, people just don't understand that kind of attitude and always think I didn't care.

The problem with the whole friends with "benefits" it that your going to get back together and then break up, then get back together, then break up, so on and so forth or someone is going to get hurt. She will think its deeper than you and you dont think the same and you will get a new girlfreind or sleep with some one else and hurt her or she will do the same.

Yea I kinda figured that is what I thought would happen.Yea we broke up like 3 times already within the last month. This time I kinda wanna stay apart.. I was thinking maybe we could start dating again. Shes gotta get another persons perspective before I date her again. I think that was one of the problems. I would let her do her own thing and such but when I wanted to do something O god can't do that nope I wanna see you.

[Dracus124]

yea, bitches be trifling.
Long story short, me and my girlfreind where fighting, my fuckbuddy called. we did the dirt, she took pictures and mailed them to my GF at the time.

http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n259/dracus124/owned-2.jpg

Atleast thats not as bad as this.

[GaMeRbOt]

http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n259/dracus124/owned-2.jpg

Atleast thats not as bad as this.

Dude, talk about oblivious...hes happy as Cake eating a fat kid.

[Cake]

Lol...........speaking of eating...........here fattie fattie fattie!!!!

[Warpurlgis]

My ex is now threatening to beat the shit out of the chick I'm going to be going out with and I don't care anymore cause she's a bitch fuck my ex.

Edit: I still love my ex but not the same way :( Shit happens...

[fly2pluto]

dear warpurlgis.

you are an asshole.


i will make your new girlfriends life hell

you are pathetic

and i dont care if i never see your ugly face again

you were the worst mistake ive ever made.

youre gonna grow up and amount to nothing

youll end up just like your crack smoking mom or your alcoholic dad.

eat shit and die.

and dont talk to me anymore
and hey,

i love you too, but not in the same way

its grown into a dull hate.

thanks!

love,
fly2pluto

[skullcandy]

Seriously, fly2pluto is a total bitch.

[Kasnia]

I just broke up with someone that I was with for more then a year. We pretty much broke up on good terms before we were at each others throats. I don't know she wants to be friends with "benefits", not really sure about this, anyone actually found this to work?

Feels kinda weird being single.... She fucking got pissed cause I got over it fast, I mean she meant A LOT to me but I.'m not the kinda person who sits and mopes about things cause they hurt. She thinks I didn't really care about her. I gotta fix this problem because she befriended a lot of my friends and they'll probably bitch at me because 1. Girls make things more then they are when they are upset. 2.My friends tend to have a soft spot for her.

Basically venting and asking for suggestions.

Tell her what you just said: "I mean she meant A LOT to me but I.'m not the kinda person who sits and mopes about things cause they hurt" That to me seems pretty understandable. There's no point in crying over her if she doesn't want to be with you.

Now for the first part. Friends with benefits usually never works (or it hasn't in my experience) because there's usually someone who falls for the other person or gets feelings. For some reason, people can't understand that sometimes sex is just sex and nothing more. They let there emotions get in the way. And seeing as how you two dated for over a year, it'd would probably be both of you that had/have emotions for each other. So it could be good in the sense that you might get back together (if you want to, that is) but it might turn out horribly bad.