so this is probably a dumb question.

[annahc]

but what should i do if i'm looking for a worthwhile guy, and a worthwhile relationship?

[AssRot]

If you go to school theres lots of nice guys there

[methtownblue]

Depends what your definition of "worthwhile" is.

I'd suggest you to date many guys as it can be thought of as a trial and error process. You can do this until you find someone who's nice and funny, but also tries to be responsible.

And remember to never "live in the now", because you will need someone who will be there for you in the future. If this is what you mean by "worthwhile", then I applaud you.

[deathlord888]

find one who does not date a lot of people lol, because then odds are he wouldnt leave you!

[drugfeind]

I agree with deathlord. look for a guy that hasnt dated many people. you should also describe to us all what your needs are, like a worthwhile guy could mean a guy that will give you good sex and leave u in 2 hours.

[annahc]

i'm just meaning a guy that i know can be in a stable relationship that i can actually RELATE to, you know? i hate all these awkward conversations where all a guy wants to do is makeout and leave.

[deathlord888]

o if you want to be cuddling with a guy while watching a movie and then have him not want to make out with you, then you want someone who is gay. because any guy wants to make out with there gf when they are alone lol. but ya there are times to talk as well as in when her brother is in the other room...

[skullcandy]

I don't really do the whole talking thing. I just prefer people's company, and if its a chick i prefer my dick in her. I'm kind of a coldhearted bastard though, and don't have a girlfriend very often.

[LiveWire]

If you're nice, fun to be around and pretty enough, they should come to you...
hahaha nah just hang around lots of guys and sus out who you want.
then only date the ones you think are 'worthwhile'
Just for the record some guys dont stay worthwhile for long...

[a2thae]

o if you want to be cuddling with a guy while watching a movie and then have him not want to make out with you, then you want someone who is gay. because any guy wants to make out with there gf when they are alone lol. but ya there are times to talk as well as in when her brother is in the other room...

Dude older brothers were never cool to me. They always would start shit with me, and I got into too many fights with them, and I'd never get to absolutely beat the shit out of them because the girl was there, so I'd just have to settle with dropping them, and then being the bigger man and walking away instead of pouncing and beating the dude to a bloody pulp...

Actually I remember I got dropped by this absolutely freaking huge guy, but he had a chin made out of glass, because I hit him with a left hook and he was sleeping like a baby. I was laughing so hard because I slipped his straight right, and hit him once...good times

[drugfeind]

It's hilarious hearing fight stories, because the person telling them is always the winner, and always beats the "absolutely freaking huge guy".

[a2thae]

It's hilarious hearing fight stories, because the person telling them is always the winner, and always beats the "absolutely freaking huge guy".

I just noted the only one where I ever got dropped. Idiot. It is easy to beat the shit out of people especially when they don't have any fighting background or are just "brawlers"

Dipshit.

[deathlord888]

Dude older brothers were never cool to me. They always would start shit with me, and I got into too many fights with them, and I'd never get to absolutely beat the shit out of them because the girl was there, so I'd just have to settle with dropping them, and then being the bigger man and walking away instead of pouncing and beating the dude to a bloody pulp...

Actually I remember I got dropped by this absolutely freaking huge guy, but he had a chin made out of glass, because I hit him with a left hook and he was sleeping like a baby. I was laughing so hard because I slipped his straight right, and hit him once...good times

lol i have been chased with a bat before from a girls older brother. and the last girl i dated her brother was always saying he was going to beat me up he was 24, and then he finally saw me and said nevermind because i was twice the size of him lol

[charlee]

I've decided I'm not seriously getting involved with any girls til i think that she may qualify as a possible "the one".

[drugfeind]

Just admit it you always lose fights. Hahaha. Also it's funny you get so angry and i'm sitting here all stoned laughing my ass off cuz ur gettin' so worked up. Chill out dude I don't know you i'm just making crazy assumsions, and giving you bait that i know will make you snap. All i was doing was noteing how whenever I hear a fight story the dude telling the story is ALWAYS the champion. I personally am totally anti violence. Take er easy, and if shes easy take er twice, hell if shes shes that easy give her my number ;)

[penfold]

you should check out a guys family.genetics rarely lie.

[Xon]

So, you want a guy that will hang out with you without trying to get into your pants? That is a hard find.... Look for the quiet guy in the corner that is shy. He won't be brave enough to do anything. Nah, you really just have to learn to be a good judge of character and then sift through all the shit.

[MissTruant]

I was going to be a cunt and tell you that it might be a stupid idea to come to ACB for relationship advice... especially about finding a guy who won't try and get in your pants. But I'll speculate cause I am a girl.

It's not really hard, because once you've dated around, been on dates with different guys and what not you eventually find a guy that is willing to wait and is open about that. Guys aren't all pigs, I think the vast majority of guys ARE NOT. I used to think they were all trying to hit and run, but you need to get over that paranoia. Tell a guy upfront that you're not in it for anything sexual at first.

Questions though... how old are you?

[Nebuchadnezzar]

So, you want a guy that will hang out with you without trying to get into your pants? That is a hard find.... Look for the quiet guy in the corner that is shy. He won't be brave enough to do anything. Nah, you really just have to learn to be a good judge of character and then sift through all the shit.

The quiet guy in the corner, if he likes you enough, will eventually become bolder and resent you if he thinks you're dating him for charity (as most people with low self-esteem do). Don't be fooled by the generous concessions ad affection of the first few months; a shy one will be grateful, but won't stay that way.

[a2thae]

Just admit it you always lose fights. Hahaha. Also it's funny you get so angry and i'm sitting here all stoned laughing my ass off cuz ur gettin' so worked up. Chill out dude I don't know you i'm just making crazy assumsions, and giving you bait that i know will make you snap. All i was doing was noteing how whenever I hear a fight story the dude telling the story is ALWAYS the champion. I personally am totally anti violence. Take er easy, and if shes easy take er twice, hell if shes shes that easy give her my number ;)

First off, I wasn't angry nor was I worked up. You don't have to be angry or worked up to tell someone to die, or to call them a dipshit.

Dipshit.

Second, I already warned you like three fuckin times about using grammar, and neatening up your posts.

[deathlord888]

also find a virgin because then he is obviously not going for it hard

[Xon]

The quiet guy in the corner, if he likes you enough, will eventually become bolder and resent you if he thinks you're dating him for charity (as most people with low self-esteem do). Don't be fooled by the generous concessions ad affection of the first few months; a shy one will be grateful, but won't stay that way.

Wow, I was really just joking about that. But anyhow...

Just find someone that likes you?