Sex length?

[CHEETZzz]

OK, as previously stated (and accepted i think) i'm a virgin.
whatever. and now i have a girlfriend, so no random hookups for me.
i don't care.

but many of my friends obviously aren't virgins and i was talking to a girl in one of my classes, and she was telling me how she and this guy hooked up and he only lasted like 10 minutes.. lol, for shame.

now, i've heard alot of different stories but haven't had any experience, and obviously porn is porn and completely incomparable.



so, mostly out of interest,
for you active boys and girls out there, how long does your sex last?

i'll include a poll for lulz.

[Phoenix Fire]

I take an adderall or two and I can last at least 2 hours at hyperspeed before blowing my load.

[CHEETZzz]

should i add a longer time segment there? lol

EDIT**
i guess i can't? woops, i thought you could.

whatever Phoenix, this is for normal, narcotic-free vaginal sex.
to set a reference

[Imperium]

Depending on if you've been fapping, how tired you are, how much your both into it etc, it can be anywhere from a couple minutes to like an hour. I'm not too experienced in realm of carnal relations (yes I have been there, just not all that often) so I'll let one of the hardcores take it from here.

[CHEETZzz]

yeah, i believe you and i share similar philosophies on sex Imperium, haha
i remember your thread about sex being pointless, and you had good points and stuff there

cheers

[Imperium]

that was Zamato Elite.
I think sex is great.

[CHEETZzz]

oh, wtf@$!
lmao my bad :D
i confuse you two for some reason XD

[a2thae]

Eh it depends on how I'm feeling, or if we doing a quickie. It can be anywhere from an hour to 2hours+. Sex is pretty much about the girl cuz the guy can go in like 5 minutes if he wanted to...

::EDIT::just watched robot chicken, with a pill you can become the HOUR MAN!....but if you become the 4 hour man see a doctor lol

[mojo_1]

Wow, like sex lasts different all the time, never the same!

Though, I have done a guy or two that blew their load in like, 10 minutes or less, and I wasn't even doing anything that great. And another that lasted for ever and ever and ever and never seem able to come, no matter what crazy shit I was doing.

And there are some that last for ever and ever and ever and seem to be able to go on till the end of the universe, even when I am in total sensory overload and cant handle it anymore. So I stop, and then five minutes later we are inevitably back into it... And this is the best kind, cos it goes on all night long.

In general though, including all the bits at the beginning, a couple hours perhaps.. Though sometimes I fuck it up by making the dude come early. Have to be careful...

Also, when I am high (which, incidentally, is now, so sorry if I am talking rubbish!) I will go for hours, though I am not really sure if smoking pot has the same effects on guys..???

And Phoenix- 2 hours at top speed, for real..???

[Phoenix Fire]

For real.

Wanna give it a try? ;)

[deathlord888]

lol people lie, 2 hours top speed, i doubt you could keep up your heart rate for that long.... let alone be able to not blow. i will be serious and say first time expect <10 mins MAX if the guy says more he is lieing. that is just the first time tho

[Phoenix Fire]

I shit you not mike....
The drugs helped a lil bit though.

[deathlord888]

ya i am talking naturally

[Phoenix Fire]

Naturally, I have no idea......

[freetibet]

If you wanna last longer just get a bj beforehand

either that or have a quickie wait 5 mins and do a longer one.

[mojo_1]

Two hours top speed...

[Phoenix Fire]

Wanna test it ?

[deathlord888]

lol i know this is not true, can you sprint for 2 hours??? no... you get tired so i know you are not going top speed for 2 hours

[mojo_1]

HAHA... That's a good point... Though sex is a whole heap more fun than sprinting, so it would be waaaaaay easier to last...

2 hours of fast hot sex...

[deathlord888]

lol you may want it to last but unless you run the boston *****hon fine then it is not happening

[mojo_1]

Hahaaaa NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO- Stop ruining for me something that could be potentially so awesome!

[deathlord888]

lol if you like scrawny *****hon runners then it could happen

[mojo_1]

Aaaaah noooo! It is true though, *****hon runners are very scrawny, my cus is one... Oh dam you, I can still imagine it how it should be!

[deathlord888]

lol if the guy is in the military for extre***y active he might be able to go for that long, but not with out novacain or something

[superflysuperwhite]

if you go two hours you better be doing something amazing because.. it's going to get stale... especially if the girl isnt.. you know "feeling it".

[RuthlessMan]

Is this the moment you start intercourse? Or are we counting working your way up to there? I like to try to slowly build anticipation with my girl, teasing her a little bit/a lot before we REALLY start.

[Phoenix Fire]

2 hours of my dick inside something .

[deathlord888]

ya i can see 2 hours from first kiss of the night to throwing out the condom but not 2 hours you railing her

[superflysuperwhite]

i'd much rather bone a girl for 5 minuts and then give it another go, then do her for 2 hours and not satisfying her.. theres no excuse for that.

[Phoenix Fire]

Mike, want me to tape it for you?
Mojo, come here.

[deathlord888]

just so you know in porn they go a couple times for each sex scene, they just get it up and go again. and if mojo is the girl in her profile she is really good looking

[Kasnia]

It depends. I'm not always into how long I can go, but the quality of sex. I've had some horrible people that can go for a couple hours, and then great ones that go for maybe 20 minutes.

[Phoenix Fire]

Yes, that mojo.
Ask kasnia, she knows ;).

[Kasnia]

I know what? I wasn't really paying attention to the rest of the thread, and even after re-reading part of it I still don't know what you're talking about.

[deathlord888]

you know mojo, kas?

[Kasnia]

What are you talking about? That one chick, Mojo? Because I've never really talked to her before. I don't even know if I've talked to her directly inside of this forum before.

[Phoenix Fire]

I know what? I wasn't really paying attention to the rest of the thread, and even after re-reading part of it I still don't know what you're talking about.


Me either .

[a2thae]

Back on topic

It depends. I'm not always into how long I can go, but the quality of sex. I've had some horrible people that can go for a couple hours, and then great ones that go for maybe 20 minutes.

This is a good point

[mojo_1]

It depends. I'm not always into how long I can go, but the quality of sex. I've had some horrible people that can go for a couple hours, and then great ones that go for maybe 20 minutes.

Imagine if the great ones went for a couple of hours..

[deathlord888]

to bad it doesnt happen

[mojo_1]

K you know I will be out to prove you wrong now...

[deathlord888]

K you know I will be out to prove you wrong now...

lol find me and i can show you a long time :)

[mojo_1]

to bad it doesnt happen

Hahaaaaaaa

[CHEETZzz]

lol wow,
there have been answers all across the fucking board

but imma pay attention to Kasnia's advice (advice? ha)
quality over quantity i suppose you'd call it


but yeah i always thought it was best to jack off like 2 hours beforehand so as to increase bone capacity. haha i said "bone capacity"

[Phoenix Fire]

Haha you said "bone capacity"

[mojo_1]

Kasnia has got it right. The rest of us (meaning me!) can just imagine...

Also, goodluck increasing bone capacity

[Kasnia]

I just skills when it comes to this kind of thing. Lol.

If you can build up to where you're good in bed AND can last for a while, then you're just a sex god. Most people don't have that luck though. Also, lots of practice helps. And I don't mean that as in, "Go out and be a whore, fuck a different person every night, etc etc" it can be the same person constantly, that way you both get better.

[a2thae]

I just skills when it comes to this kind of thing. Lol.

If you can build up to where you're good in bed AND can last for a while, then you're just a sex god. Most people don't have that luck though. Also, lots of practice helps. And I don't mean that as in, "Go out and be a whore, fuck a different person every night, etc etc" it can be the same person constantly, that way you both get better.

Practice is good. "Sex Gods" are rare. "Sex kings" are too. If you are referring as a sex god who is awesome in bed for 2hours+...that is quite a feat.

[Zamato Elite]

Sex lasts a long ass time. This surprised the first time I did it. I thought BJs would be quick and easy, but in practice, they are long and really not that great.

You know me when it comes to sex. I think it's stupid and extre***y overrated. It's not horrible, but it's not really that great.

But rule #1, make sure the bitch is on birth control. Condoms fucking suck. I don't think it's possible for me to orgasm with a condom on.

[Cuddles]

Sex lasts a long ass time. This surprised the first time I did it. I thought BJs would be quick and easy, but in practice, they are long and really not that great.

You know me when it comes to sex. I think it's stupid and extre***y overrated. It's not horrible, but it's not really that great.

But rule #1, make sure the bitch is on birth control. Condoms fucking suck. I don't think it's possible for me to orgasm with a condom on.

ever consider you might just be terrible in bed?

[Zamato Elite]

ever consider you might just be terrible in bed?

Just as good as the next guy.

[Cuddles]

that's....uhh...not really saying much, from what ive heard....

[Zamato Elite]

that's....uhh...not really saying much, from what ive heard....

Then what you've heard is wrong.

[deathlord888]

see most people are honest and say under 30 minutes

[Kasnia]

see most people are honest and say under 30 minutes

The poll is also anonymous too, otherwise I'm sure things would be different. Lol.

[deathlord888]

lol that is true.

[Zamato Elite]

see most people are honest and say under 30 minutes

Under 30 min is bullshit.

[deathlord888]

no you will not go more than 30 minutes at full speed, pornstars cant even do that and that is there job...

[Zamato Elite]

no you will not go more than 30 minutes at full speed, pornstars cant even do that and that is there job...

Well, I'm factoring foreplay and all that crap. For some people that is almost required to get them in the mood. Even still, sex takes more then 30 min. Vagina feels good, but not that good. And when you factor in the condom, it feels like crap.

[deathlord888]

o ya add foreplay and it is longer than 30 min easy, but i ment from first penetration full speed non stop till the end

[Warpurlgis]

i got about 30- 45 minutes then im tired

[charlee]

shit after i hit a half hour i finish it then, smoke a square, toke a bowl. repeat.

[Zamato Elite]

o ya add foreplay and it is longer than 30 min easy, but i ment from first penetration full speed non stop till the end

Well in that case probably. I don't sit there with a timer while I'm nailing a girl.

I guess what they say is true. Sex varies from person to person. For me, it's a overrated act that I can completely simply through masturbation. On top of that, I avoid that bullshit drama that comes neatly packaged with every female.

[deathlord888]

you should have a stop watch with you so you can time it jeeze

[charlee]

i too think it is overrated, but still very very enjoyable.

[dielon]

just wax your carrot as much as you can before you do it your first time.

[drugfeind]

lol when i took my gf's virginity i railed her for more than an hour, i cummed 3 times and she couldnt hardly walk for a week. her mom asked her why she was limping. lol i thought it was so fucking hilarious. but neway the first time i cummed it was probly like 10 minutes at a rapid pace then i cummed and kept going but i slowed down a bit. it really isnt that hard to go for over an hour if you bike over 10 miles every day like i do. so fuck all of you out of shape motherfuckers. after you cum the first time it takes much longer to cum the second time if you keep your dick in her and keep railing her, just slow down for a bit until it stops tickling then give er and start going super fast( that is if your not a pussy shit and you have the energy) if the girl is looking like shes gunna cumm DONT GO FASTER keep going the same speed until she cumms, she will love you foreveer

[karmassinator]

Naw heres some advice for all you pre-ejaculators... ORAJEL

It wasn't my idea but I suffer from the same problem as all you other fools.
Only because I want to :)
but yeah orajel takes away some of the sensation of your dick so your toes dont curl up and shit. It was my girls idea, shes a whore and wanted to use me as a dildo and shes into denying male ejaculation so like I get blue balled alot. But it works dude I sware it, but oh yeah you gotta put the cream on then a condom so she dont go numb or get your juices in the danger zone.

But if your not into that just dont worry about it dude I'm convince its all mental capacity, you know? how ever long you wanna go you can do it just dont rocket your dick the entire time and when your feel the tingley cumming on just relax and your cum will becum pre-cum. thats the best cause then when your ready to go off you will blow more milk than you can handle and it could last a long time, and after that then just have her make out with your friend and your ready to go again!

[a2thae]

Naw heres some advice for all you pre-ejaculators... ORAJEL

It wasn't my idea but I suffer from the same problem as all you other fools.
Only because I want to :)
but yeah orajel takes away some of the sensation of your dick so your toes dont curl up and shit. It was my girls idea, shes a whore and wanted to use me as a dildo and shes into denying male ejaculation so like I get blue balled alot. But it works dude I sware it, but oh yeah you gotta put the cream on then a condom so she dont go numb or get your juices in the danger zone.

But if your not into that just dont worry about it dude I'm convince its all mental capacity, you know? how ever long you wanna go you can do it just dont rocket your dick the entire time and when your feel the tingley cumming on just relax and your cum will becum pre-cum. thats the best cause then when your ready to go off you will blow more milk than you can handle and it could last a long time, and after that then just have her make out with your friend and your ready to go again!

Orajel for premys? hahaha that is some funny shit.

[deathlord888]

lol when i took my gf's virginity i railed her for more than an hour, i cummed 3 times and she couldnt hardly walk for a week. her mom asked her why she was limping. lol i thought it was so fucking hilarious. but neway the first time i cummed it was probly like 10 minutes at a rapid pace then i cummed and kept going but i slowed down a bit. it really isnt that hard to go for over an hour if you bike over 10 miles every day like i do. so fuck all of you out of shape motherfuckers. after you cum the first time it takes much longer to cum the second time if you keep your dick in her and keep railing her, just slow down for a bit until it stops tickling then give er and start going super fast( that is if your not a pussy shit and you have the energy) if the girl is looking like shes gunna cumm DONT GO FASTER keep going the same speed until she cumms, she will love you foreveer



lol i assumed this timer was stopped at the first go

[MissTruant]

lol when i took my gf's virginity i railed her for more than an hour, i cummed 3 times and she couldnt hardly walk for a week. her mom asked her why she was limping. lol i thought it was so fucking hilarious. but neway the first time i cummed it was probly like 10 minutes at a rapid pace then i cummed and kept going but i slowed down a bit. it really isnt that hard to go for over an hour if you bike over 10 miles every day like i do. so fuck all of you out of shape motherfuckers. after you cum the first time it takes much longer to cum the second time if you keep your dick in her and keep railing her, just slow down for a bit until it stops tickling then give er and start going super fast( that is if your not a pussy shit and you have the energy) if the girl is looking like shes gunna cumm DONT GO FASTER keep going the same speed until she cumms, she will love you foreveer

That just made you sound so stupid. Anyway...

Soft, all of you boys under 30 minutes. When I was together with my ex, we used to go for hours if no one was around. Question though... do you eventually reach a point where you just can't bust anymore? Like after 4 or 5 times or whatever. I'm curious

[charlee]

After my first bust which happens damn near randomly, it takes quite a bit(ALOT) of work to get the second one.

and usually after the second one my hips hurt, shes sore, and im feeling like a cigarette and a sandwich.

[deathlord888]

That just made you sound so stupid. Anyway...

Soft, all of you boys under 30 minutes. When I was together with my ex, we used to go for hours if no one was around. Question though... do you eventually reach a point where you just can't bust anymore? Like after 4 or 5 times or whatever. I'm curious

yes most guys 3rd is the final

[charlee]

been a while since ive gone 3.

[sumoman888]

if u jsut take like two Paxils you can go for ever like untill you actually just get too tired to do anything

[charlee]

Or just get fucked up.

[tmz]

shortest i've ever had was legit under a minute. which was such epic fail XD

longest was prolly like 45 minutes. may have been more. i passed out form exhaustion....

[deathlord888]

LMFAO a minutE? that would suck

[tmz]

it was more like 30 seconds....
i was like seriously. you're done? wow.
fuck my life ahahaha

[deathlord888]

lol he didnt go again?

[a2thae]

ahahaha...have the dude get orajel.

[tmz]

it was sooo weird cos i had been with him before. a lot. and typically he goes for like half an hour if not longer so i was soooooo confused.

he made up for it later that day though.

[remadon1]

ACCORDING TO WWW.FUN-ON.COM

It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed. A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.

If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."

Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe that "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."

The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty (who, it must be noted, is male). But he said prior research has shown that both men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.

Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes.

Personally without ejaculating before hand about 8-10,
if i do ejaculate first than i can last much longer.

[tmz]

hoorray for scientific information!

[Heiliger]

I'm curious; how many here have sex regularly, as in once per week or more? There seems to be a common theme of inexperience on this thread.

Seriously people, there are way too many factors in sex to put any sort of standard equation together for proper amount of time. Even between two people in a committed relationship, times vary widely based on energy level, length of foreplay, stress, etc.

The important thing is that both partners are satisfied. Everything else is pride and ego.

[remadon1]

I'm curious; how many here have sex regularly, as in once per week or more? There seems to be a common theme of inexperience on this thread.

Seriously people, there are way too many factors in sex to put any sort of standard equation together for proper amount of time. Even between two people in a committed relationship, times vary widely based on energy level, length of foreplay, stress, etc.

The important thing is that both partners are satisfied. Everything else is pride and ego.



Actually that makes allot of sense.
Weather or not it is enjoyed is more important than how long it lasts.

[Chiri]

Wow. All I have to say to this n00by sex forum is: If you can last 2+ hours, you're way too small or your woman is wrecked due to previously having like 78 large babies.

Edit: Correction, not all are n00bs. I didn't read the intelligent posts by Heiliger, Remadon, and Deathlord before I posted.

[gentle pastor]

going for 2 hours will leave some nasty chafe

[a2thae]

I'm curious; how many here have sex regularly, as in once per week or more? There seems to be a common theme of inexperience on this thread.

Don't think a lot of people.

Seriously people, there are way too many factors in sex to put any sort of standard equation together for proper amount of time. Even between two people in a committed relationship, times vary widely based on energy level, length of foreplay, stress, etc.
I'm pretty sure the goal of this thread wasn't to establish any sort of equation, it was just an inquisitive member wondering how long people can go.

Half the people are counting foreplay, half the people aren't.

The important thing is that both partners are satisfied. Everything else is pride and ego.

Ehhh I still hold firm in my belief sex is about the girl. I guess I'm sort of agreeing with this statement, but "everything else" often leads to the satisfaction, and thus is a part of it, not merely pride and ego though it can turn into pride and ego.

[Xon]

From my experience (Yes, I have sex about once or twice a day, depending) Not including foreplay, sex lasts about 5 to 10 minutes. If you can't please your girl in that amount of time, she is going to be like wtf, I wanted to have sex, not you just keep moving back and forth. But, if you include foreplay, it can go several hours. It just depends on what your and her mood (or your and his mood) is. But seriously, be realistic. If you are a virgin, you should worry more about the first few minutes (talking to the guys here). And if you know you are going to come early. Make sure you please whoever first, then go ahead do your thing. That way she will be interested in doing it again.

[Heiliger]

Haha, solid advice, Xon. You and a2thae bring up a good point about satisfying the woman first. When I stated earlier that both partners being satisfied was the most important thing, I failed to mention that, chronologically speaking, the woman is most important. For the most part, male satisfaction is pretty much guaranteed (with some exceptions, of course).

[tmz]

I 'm curious; how many here have sex regularly, as in once per week or more? There seems to be a common theme of inexperience on this thread.

before my main guy went off to college i had it every day for at least two months. relationship before that at least twice a week for over a year.

now i'm down to like once every liek ten days or something and i hate it and i'm going crazy.


The important thing is that both partners are satisfied. Everything else is pride and ego

truth.

[a2thae]

From my experience (Yes, I have sex about once or twice a day, depending) Not including foreplay, sex lasts about 5 to 10 minutes. If you can't please your girl in that amount of time, she is going to be like wtf, I wanted to have sex, not you just keep moving back and forth. But, if you include foreplay, it can go several hours. It just depends on what your and her mood (or your and his mood) is. But seriously, be realistic. If you are a virgin, you should worry more about the first few minutes (talking to the guys here). And if you know you are going to come early. Make sure you please whoever first, then go ahead do your thing. That way she will be interested in doing it again.

5-10 minutes, then you're done? Like you have sex for 10 minutes max and you're done? Have ya done quickies all your life dude? lol

Haha, solid advice, Xon. You and a2thae bring up a good point about satisfying the woman first. When I stated earlier that both partners being satisfied was the most important thing, I failed to mention that, chronologically speaking, the woman is most important. For the most part, male satisfaction is pretty much guaranteed (with some exceptions, of course).

Yeah, dude can bust in like 2min if he wanted to.

[Xon]

5-10 minutes, then you're done? Like you have sex for 10 minutes max and you're done? Have ya done quickies all your life dude? lol


Hardly. Although I have had my fair share. Lunch break is and earl mornings I just don't have enough time anymore. But I was just stating that like, if you can't get it done if 10 min, I doubt you can in an hour. Foreplay usually lasts more than 30 minutes though. At least in my own life.

*Note: I have gone, and do go more than 10 min. Just saying. And that is for one session. A good fuck for me is going for about three or four times in a row at night. Mornings, I don't have that much time, so usually quickies.

now i'm down to like once every liek ten days or something and i hate it and i'm going crazy.

Holy shit. I once went for three days. I couldn't stand it. I can understand the going crazy. I would have broke by then.

[Heiliger]

Holy shit. I once went for three days. I couldn't stand it. I can understand the going crazy. I would have broke by then.

Haha, 3 days? Try deploying overseas and leaving your brand-new wife at home. Now that's suffering! :D

[tmz]

Holy shit. I once went for three days. I couldn't stand it. I can understand the going crazy. I would have broke by then.

i'm DYING. DYING.
like honestly i haven't had sex in a week and i think i'm gonna kill myself. D=

[a2thae]

Haha, 3 days? Try deploying overseas and leaving your brand-new wife at home. Now that's suffering! :D

that must build some serious willpower.

[tmz]

i definately wouldnt be able to handle that situation.

[Xon]

Yeah, I know. I have to go drill for two weeks in August and I don't think I will be able to take it. Luckily, if I have to deploy, it won't be for like two more years so I am safe for now.

[a2thae]

closed due to people voting and not adding input.