Yeah I need help pretty badly....

[annahc]

i can't get over this guy. he broke up with me like a week ago and this other guy wants to ask me out....i don't give a damn about him though. i want to get back with my ex. sooo badly. and he keeps saying that he used to love me but he fell out if it. i need him back, like i really do. and i have no idea what i should be doing

[deathlord888]

dont date the other guy, it will fuck with him, it happened to me, and i was the guy that got fucked

[annahc]

i think it's the only way to get over my ex though. like the last time this happened it was probably the only reason i moved on. but this time i feel like it's different. like i hate to say that i might be in love with him

[deathlord888]

well dont use someone else or else you just are an intellectual whore. and if your old bf doesnt want you back dont push him or you will just get hurt again

[charlee]

agreed, best i can say is, figure out what is the issue[the reason he dosent like you or w/e] with you and or him, and fix it.

[freetibet]

the answer of course, is to post nudes of yourself on the site. Nothing helps you get over a guy quicker than showing the world your titties...

[a2thae]

i can't get over this guy. he broke up with me like a week ago and this other guy wants to ask me out....i don't give a damn about him though. i want to get back with my ex. sooo badly. and he keeps saying that he used to love me but he fell out if it. i need him back, like i really do. and i have no idea what i should be doing

The best advice I can give for this type of thing is that you should put some space between you and your ex. Ignore him, and forget about him for a LITTLE BIT.

What this does is it gives him an ultimate gift...The gift of missing you. This is a very powerful thing, because it sounds like you are very passionate about him, and an abrupt change he will definitely notice.

He might try to talk to you and whatnot, but you should act like your not interested..remember what made him fall for you in the first place. People want generally what is hard for them to obtain.

If he begins to notice that you are over him, he might start to panic a little bit...

I reccommend seeing him like 1/4 as much as you do now, or less, do that for a few weeks and take it from there, that spark of attraction can always be rekindled.

[freetibet]

that could backfire though...

I mean what if the guy just moves on too and forgets about her. She would be pretending she doesn't care when he actually stops caring for real.

[a2thae]

Very true, but I'd say it was her best shot to rekindle the spark. Or she should just forget about him, and go find another guy she likes etc.

[freetibet]

ya thats true...

I say just move on to the next guy. A rebound or two helps from my experience...

[a2thae]

Ultimately this is just a tough situation that you have to get through one way or another. The best way I think for you to get him back is to be O.K. with the thought of losing him..

Rebounds sort of help, but don't use other people to make him jealous...that's a lil fucked up to do that. I've seen it happen, and the people who get used usually feel like absolute shit.

But then again you might not give a fuck, so do what you will.