How to get any girl, anytime.

[numerator-91]

Be the alpha male. Every chick wants the alpha male, the chick who is with the alpha male by default becomes the alpha female. That is what chicks really want.

[freetibet]

true story... At least for immature highschool bitches

some girls interpret it different though. Some consider the most popular person the alpha male, some consider the richest the alpha male, etc

[a2thae]

Be the alpha male. Every chick wants the alpha male, the chick who is with the alpha male by default becomes the alpha female. That is what chicks really want.



You do have a point, but only to a degree. Being an alpha works in the wild, because there isn't intelligence to see that there are more suitable partners. Once you put intelligence into the equation it becomes much more complicated.

Confidence is what they are really after, along with someone who can make them feel good. Dominance is a good thing too, but being overtly dominant can hurt your standings.

The best way to get any girl, anytime is to not be a loser who hits on her like the way every other 100 guys out there do, and build attraction.

You gotta stand out in a good way. I mean if you were being hit on like 100 times everyday by a different guy, you would develop subconscious tests to weed out the ones you didn't want, even if one of them may have been perfect personalitywise, they didn't pass the "test" up front.

Women test guys all the time. Take it like this; if a gal is speakin to you, she's probably testing you whether conscious or subconscious

Attraction isn't a choice, it's an emotional reaction

That is why being a nice dude will never get you teh ladiez...unless they recently had a bad relationship with a guy, and are willing to try other things, but you only have her on the rebound.

Yeah, its sort of like art

To sum it all up, be a man, and don't try to be her girlfriend.



.....Unless you are a lesbian, and are dating other girls

[MISFlT]

roofies work too..

[a2thae]

roofies remind me of the pickup line

"Hey, does this rag s***l like chloroform to you?"

I was talking about consenual picking up girls...not knocking them out and taking advantage of them. I thought that was understood

[freetibet]

Once you put intelligence into the equation it becomes much more complicated.

Confidence is what they are really after, along with someone who can make them feel good. Dominance is a good thing too, but being overtly dominant can hurt your standings.

Ya but the thing is the 'intelligence' is often about becoming the alpha female. So they think "hmm if i date this guy, that will make me more popular" or "hmm if i date this guy that will make me more wealthy". While no girl would admit this, its true for nearly every single one of them.

and confidence, being dominant, etc are just things that come along with being the alpha male

[a2thae]

Ya but the thing is the 'intelligence' is often about becoming the alpha female. So they think "hmm if i date this guy, that will make me more popular" or "hmm if i date this guy that will make me more wealthy". While no girl would admit this, its true for nearly every single one of them.

and confidence, being dominant, etc are just things that come along with being the alpha male

Not really. It's more along the lines of "Will this guy make me feel amazing" type thing. In some situations it is "How will I benefit from this guy" though...

My point is anyone can get a hot girl. Even if you aren't an alpha male, though it doesn't hurt to be one.

A one eye-d midget with an awesome personality who was a fuckin 2 on a scale of 10 could get a stunnin 10 because gals are mostly about personality when it comes to attraction, but looks do not hinder it..

[numerator-91]

you have clearly not read the ladder theory.

[a2thae]

nah. tell me about it.

I do faintly remember seeing something about it, but in my opinion it's valid to certain degree, if the ladder theory is the thing about how in the wild the alpha male sleeps with 75% of the females.

That is true. In the wild. It is also true that females instinctively catch on to the "alpha male"

My point is that you don't need to be one though

[LiveWire]

the ladder theory is mostly bullshit.

[a2thae]

well then..my post stands strong while numerator's is slowly being crushed...

[numerator-91]

of course a female would say that, but if you think long and hard about it and try out a few of the examples you may find truths you are afraid to accept.

[a2thae]

Ok, I just went to laddertheory.com.. some funny shit

anyway, a guy can be friends with a gal, and not want to fuck her. I just want that to be known.

Screw the laddertheory. It got a lil bit right, although funny I agree with livewire

[deathlord888]

i think it is mostly true, and to bad chicks prefer guys with money over strength

[freetibet]

My point is anyone can get a hot girl. Even if you aren't an alpha male, though it doesn't hurt to be one.

Well ya anyone can get a hot girl, but its usually because they see you as the best option at the time. They think, "well George is the most muscular guy, but he is with Sarah, Sam is pretty muscular too though and he's single"

So in that situation she will go with Sam, but if George ever shows interest in her she'll drop Sam without hesitation.

and other girls just look for the alpha male is certain social circles. So if the girl is into jocks she'll go for the team captain, but might settle for a running back if that's the best she thinks she can get.

[LiveWire]

Ok, I just went to laddertheory.com.. some funny shit

anyway, a guy can be friends with a gal, and not want to fuck her. I just want that to be known.

Screw the laddertheory. It got a lil bit right, although funny I agree with livewire

yea its funny and i dunno, the stuff about the guys might be true. I know the stuff about girls isn't though. not for me anyway

when i meet a guy i don't stick him on 'ladder' that compares him to other guys. I more sum up each dude individually based on looks, personality etc (i dont give a fuck about money) and then just take it from there
its more complicated then just shoving him on a friends or more then friends ladder.


i think it is mostly true, and to bad chicks prefer guys with money over strength

..... not always

[deathlord888]

it has always been that for me, but i am the richest out of all of my friends haha, but only because i earned it

[numerator-91]

yea its funny and i dunno, the stuff about the guys might be true. I know the stuff about girls isn't though. not for me anyway

when i meet a guy i don't stick him on 'ladder' that compares him to other guys. I more sum up each dude individually based on looks, personality etc (i dont give a fuck about money) and then just take it from there
its more complicated then just shoving him on a friends or more then friends ladder.


..... not always

It says subconciously even.

[a2thae]

I think they compare the guys on a "ladder" of personality being the biggest thing. Unless the other person is a trillionaire, then the dude with the "best personality" has his work cut out for him.

[CHEETZzz]

lol, this is all useless if you want to actually date a girl in a successful relationship.
Num, i thought you knew better since you know of the teachings of the great Tucker Max.


Basically though, if looking to just get the bitch (for a little while at least), being the alpha male is true to an extent.

However, the girls attracted to the alpha males are not always the right girls for the guy pretending to be the alpha male. I'm saying if you truly want a successful relationship, you have to be 100% honestly yourself, and she has to be the same. Bullshit only makes things last so long until it's all in the open, that's why you have to lay your cards down in the first hand.

However, if looking to get laid you have to:

1. establish an aura of confidence and charm without appearing conceited or arrogant
2. destroy all competition by either proving yourself the best or casually shooting them down to her, often through humor
3. be subtle yet clear of your intentions and constantly check her reactions (body language, tone, etc.)
4. if you seem to have a decent chance, fucking go in for the kill and either:

a. get her number/contact info
b. set up another meet up
c. go to one of your houses and fuck :D


Long live Tucker Max and may his loins always be fruitful.

[LiveWire]

It says subconciously even.

seriously man... how would this dude know what goes on in my head subconiously?!

[a2thae]

lol, this is all useless if you want to actually date a girl in a successful relationship.
Num, i thought you knew better since you know of the teachings of the great Tucker Max.


Basically though, if looking to just get the bitch (for a little while at least), being the alpha male is true to an extent.

However, the girls attracted to the alpha males are not always the right girls for the guy pretending to be the alpha male. I'm saying if you truly want a successful relationship, you have to be 100% honestly yourself, and she has to be the same. Bullshit only makes things last so long until it's all in the open, that's why you have to lay your cards down in the first hand.

However, if looking to get laid you have to:

1. establish an aura of confidence and charm without appearing conceited or arrogant
2. destroy all competition by either proving yourself the best or casually shooting them down to her, often through humor
3. be subtle yet clear of your intentions and constantly check her reactions (body language, tone, etc.)
4. if you seem to have a decent chance, fucking go in for the kill and either:

a. get her number/contact info
b. set up another meet up
c. go to one of your houses and fuck :D


Long live Tucker Max and may his loins always be fruitful.

Damn. The first 4 steps are spot on. Whoever wrote those, gets how to at least talk to a girl, and make her interested (assuming she has a sense of humor)

Number 2, I wouldn't try to "prove" myself to be the best, I'm more of the laidback type..

The a. b. c. Is o.k., but if you're looking to get laid, I'd go for the one night stand, and skip the number/set up meeting, just take her somewhere and work the "magic"

The part about the relationship I guess is too, but the thing is a lot of guy's personalities are *****g. VERY *****g, and by being honest, they just turn off a ton of girls. It's very hard for some people to change etc., I try to get my friends to change up their personalities, but they are with the whole "Your method works, but I want to be able to be myself" So I'm just like fuck it.

::EDIT:: seriously man... how would this dude know what goes on in my head subconiously?!

Subconsciously no one knows what goes on, it is only speculation. After studying typical girls psychologically, he has arrived to a conclusion. He doesn't know, but he assumes you are like the average gal.., and applies what he "knows" to you.

[LiveWire]

i agree. so many guys these days are *****g. If i can't have an interesting conversation with him and he cant make me laugh then im sure as hell not gonna fuck him.

[numerator-91]

what if he gave you a fistful of cash

[a2thae]

I would imagine it would have to be a lot of money in that fistfull(if he gave it to some girl not interested in him), but then he isn't really pickin her up, he is just buyin her as a use to satisfy his urges..

But everyone has a price for almost everything.

[LiveWire]

I'd take the money and punch him.

[a2thae]

Hahaha. That could also happen, or you could bait him into showin a wad of cash, grab it and run.

[LiveWire]

hell yea!

I would fully do that.

[deathlord888]

or he could get you loaded then do it

[a2thae]

what if he rolls with like a glock 45 or something...then you're screwed..

[numerator-91]

Ok i have a question for the lady here.

There are two guys that like you, they are pretty much the same in every way...except one of them is fucking loaded and the other is just a little bit nicer personality. Which one would you choose to date?

[skullcandy]

Since were speaking of subconcious choosing and what appears to be labeling every gal as the "average gal" then i'd like to remind everyone that there is ALWAYS an exception to the stereotype, rule, or manlaw.

[a2thae]

Since were speaking of subconcious choosing and what appears to be labeling every gal as the "average gal" then i'd like to remind everyone that there is ALWAYS an exception to the stereotype, rule, or manlaw.

no shit shirlock. Average doesn't mean everyone. most people can figure that out. fuck

Ok i have a question for the lady here.

There are two guys that like you, they are pretty much the same in every way...except one of them is fucking loaded and the other is just a little bit nicer personality. Which one would you choose to date?

...I would like to point out that if they are almost the same...yet a LITTLE bit of personality, and the other is "fucking loaded" is a little bit of a bias.

Why not, "One has an ok personality, yet is fucking loaded, but the other has an awesome personality but is mediocre when it comes to cash"?

But still let us allow the lady to decide.

[deathlord888]

she will say the nicer guy because she does not want to look like a bitch on here, and after reading this she might say it just to spite me

[LiveWire]

fuck you deathlord!

No but seriously i would go with the nicer guy.
because....

A- Im bloody 16.... i don't give a fuck how much money my bf has its not like im gonna live with him yet.

B- i'd feel sorta bad if i dated a really rich guy cos my family isnt that well off,

C- i'm a sucker for those cute stoner dudes that grew up in a nasty neighborhood living on a benefit. no idea why


edit... why would i have a problem with sounding like a bitch.
rich guys are often really really stuck up.

[numerator-91]

but this rich guy isn't.

[LiveWire]

still the one with a nicer personality.

you're just trying to make me say i'd date the rich guy...
maybe that would be the case if i was older and was going to live with him and had absolutely NO plans or hope for my own future career.

[freetibet]

so if the rich guy offered to take you sky diving, and the good personality guy offered to take you to the movies, you'd go to the movies?

lol

[deathlord888]

A- Im bloody 16....



i definitely did not see that one coming

[{Christopher}]

Do you like older guys?

[deathlord888]

your a creepy bastard

[freetibet]

christopher = pedophile

[skullcandy]

freetibet= christophers first. Nah i'm just messing with you guys, don't take offense

[freetibet]

i am so offended right now....

I might go cry, or masturbate to those pics christopher sent me :D

[LiveWire]

so if the rich guy offered to take you sky diving, and the good personality guy offered to take you to the movies, you'd go to the movies?

lol

depends what mood i was in... i mean if i went skydiving then i wouldnt have to talk to the rich dude too much....

but i was thinking more for a relationship then just a date.

i definitely did not see that one coming

ha ha

Do you like older guys?

NO... wait how much older?

your a creepy bastard

indeed

[freetibet]

ok... so if the rich dude could take you anywhere you wanted and would buy you anything you wanted.

rich dude = ok personality
mediocre dude = great personality

I it was me, and a rich chick, i'd take the rich chick haha

[deathlord888]

i would take the better looking chick

[freetibet]

i was talking about personality vs wealth... but ya hot girls are definitely good :D

[deathlord888]

i would go personality unless the rich chick can buy me special ear plugs to block out her bitchyness

[a2thae]

Do you like older guys?

O.k. you've reached the line of creepiness. do not cross it.

i would take the better looking chick

A lot of guys are frightfully shallow (including myself.) But how about this:

Personalitywise, the girls are the same.

Girl-A is a 7/10 in your eyes...but "is fucking loaded"

Girl-B is a 9/10 in your eyes...

Which do you choose now?

[deathlord888]

9/10, since i have money to do what i want anyway, i am wicked good at saving haha

[freetibet]

date the rich girl to get her money. and fuck the 9/10 on the side

[a2thae]

assuming of course you could pull that off..doubt it though

I don't see a lot of guys on this site who know the game very well..

[deathlord888]

i dont know the game at all, plus for me it is a once in a life time chance to bang a 9/10 anyway

[LiveWire]

haha if it was money or looks i'd choose the hot guy for sure.

[a2thae]

I dunno...the one with the cash is still good looking...its just the other girl is slightly better looking..(or a TON better looking depending on your 1-10 standard scale)

Tough.

A.C.B. is full of shallow peeps. haha

[deathlord888]

my scale is basically i would date 7/10 up which for me is about 75% of chicks or 6/10 if they have a wicked personality

[a2thae]

I'm frightfully shallow admittedly, but I'm getting a lil better. Before I was 8.5/10 or higher otherwise I didn't even speak to them...but if you add awesome personality I'll give the 7/10s a try.

[666camaro420]

Since were speaking of subconcious choosing and what appears to be labeling every gal as the "average gal" then i'd like to remind everyone that there is ALWAYS an exception to the stereotype, rule, or manlaw.
true dat. although manlaw is my code i must break said rules.

[GunMetal]

Ok I'll take back the rape joke but I didn't post the man thing -.-

[deathlord888]

joking about rape is not funny

[GunMetal]

Ok Who ever is changing my posts I'll kill you -.-

[LiveWire]

... then you're an asshole

[charlee]

haha. but anyway. instead of going out being a player, pickin up bitches left and right. use reverse psychology or whatever the fuck. dont show that you like them or flirt with them a little bit whatever, key is to make them like you first/more, make em want it, then move in for the kill, works pretty damn good for me, and eliminating all the fake bitches all together cuz fake bitches dont go for that shit.

[charlee]

yeah i just read gunmetals post about the 2x4, your a dick, or a loser.

[GunMetal]

I need to stay on topic damnit...

[a2thae]

haha. but anyway. instead of going out being a player, pickin up bitches left and right. use reverse psychology or whatever the fuck. dont show that you like them or flirt with them a little bit whatever, key is to make them like you first/more, make em want it, then move in for the kill, works pretty damn good for me, and eliminating all the fake bitches all together cuz fake bitches dont go for that shit.

I like to scope out the gals first, then focus on one, get a number or close with a place to meet when a time is good for me...I've actually done this where I've had 5 gals meet me at the same place at the same time. It was great, the worst thing that happened was one got jealous and left like after 10 minutes..

I set up a place, and used the "F" word (friends) where we drank some tea at a place called "the black cat" and went to greet the girl, sat down talked to her, then another came, went to greet her, brought her over etc..When all 5 got there we conversed for awhile talking about random shit etc., I left for like 10minutes, came back, and there was 4, and a guy trying to fit in the group, but getting rejected for saying shit like "You're hot," and "Did it hurt...when you fell from heaven?" He was pretty much getting ignored, so I decided to go sit down again. Horrible horrible horrible horrible skills..

I had a fun night that night.

Anyway I do find showing indifference is an attractive quality to many gals. It's all in the approach, most times they either like me immediately, or don't like me at all. You just gotta be different in a goodway..

What do you mean by "fake bitches" btw?

[CHEETZzz]

joking about rape is not funny

but rape is hilarious.

btw sorry bout the double post, that's what i get for hitting "reply" into different tabs.

[CHEETZzz]

Damn. The first 4 steps are spot on. Whoever wrote those, gets how to at least talk to a girl, and make her interested (assuming she has a sense of humor)

Number 2, I wouldn't try to "prove" myself to be the best, I'm more of the laidback type..

The a. b. c. Is o.k., but if you're looking to get laid, I'd go for the one night stand, and skip the number/set up meeting, just take her somewhere and work the "magic"

The part about the relationship I guess is too, but the thing is a lot of guy's personalities are *****g. VERY *****g, and by being honest, they just turn off a ton of girls. It's very hard for some people to change etc., I try to get my friends to change up their personalities, but they are with the whole "Your method works, but I want to be able to be myself" So I'm just like fuck it.


thank you, and i wrote that. :)
though i must say Tucker Max has taught me most of everything i know, and i've studied his advice and teachings intensively, the man is a deity amongst men.


and i go for the relationship at this point because i'm in highschool and:
1. not too many good girls at this point
2. i prefer having someone to spend some time with and just have fun with


and yeah, i don't mind admitting i'm a virgin, though i certainly have had the chance to get laid before, i just didn't care that much. sex is over rated and i'd rather be with someone over a one night stand at this point.


but thanks to Tucker Max i'm fairly certain i could be a fucking player now because i've memorized most of his lessons and have developed much game. thank you Tucker Max.



so in short, i'd recommend people deciding what they want first, ass or a relationship.

if ass, i'd say avoid a false relationship (unless you're going for fuck buddies)
if a relationship, make sure you look in a good place

a bar/party is not the best place to find the girl you want to date.
look somewhere that you'd be interested in, i.e. if you're into music, at a local show. if you're into sports, at a game, etc. etc.


goddamn i've gotten good at this lol

[a2thae]

thank you, and i wrote that. :)
though i must say Tucker Max has taught me most of everything i know, and i've studied his advice and teachings intensively, the man is a deity amongst men.

Tucker Max seems to know his shit then.

and i go for the relationship at this point because i'm in highschool and:
1. not too many good girls at this point
2. i prefer having someone to spend some time with and just have fun with


Oh, so you're in a small highschool, big highschools there are lots of girls to choose from.

and yeah, i don't mind admitting i'm a virgin, though i certainly have had the chance to get laid before, i just didn't care that much. sex is over rated and i'd rather be with someone over a one night stand at this point.

Use condoms. Don't wanna get a girl pregnant...morning after pill! Plus, being a virgin isn't that big a deal;except you might get teased a shitload, though if you have pickup skills and demonstrate you CAN get laid not as much.

but thanks to Tucker Max i'm fairly certain i could be a fucking player now because i've memorized most of his lessons and have developed much game. thank you Tucker Max.

True, but even if you've been taught all the lessons, experience is still extre***y important, it is very difficult; if not impossible to teach experience.

so in short, i'd recommend people deciding what they want first, ass or a relationship.

if ass, i'd say avoid a false relationship (unless you're going for fuck buddies)
if a relationship, make sure you look in a good place

a bar/party is not the best place to find the girl you want to date.
look somewhere that you'd be interested in, i.e. if you're into music, at a local show. if you're into sports, at a game, etc. etc.


goddamn i've gotten good at this lol

Looks like someone else gets it, though I do gotta say you never know what you are gonna get from party girls.

[deathlord888]

and i go for the relationship at this point because i'm in highschool and:
1. not too many good girls at this point
2. i prefer having someone to spend some time with and just have fun with




ya i have all ready fucked up or dated a girl from most groups that i am interested in. all the arty girls wont date me after i dumped one of them. the scene chicks dont like me because i bitched out one of them for cheating on my friend. and the others dont really appeal to me all that much i dont have a big school

[CHEETZzz]

i fucking like you, a2thae. no homo, lol
that was an actually good analysis of my reply, nice.
Tucker Max seems to know his shit then.


Oh, so you're in a small highschool, big highschools there are lots of girls to choose from.

1. Yes, Tucker Max has had sex with girls in the high triple digits.

2. my highschool is sort of small, but that's not the problem really... i hate preppy girls and like idk, darker girls... because i'm a darker kind of person. so naturally, since i'm part of a minority social group, it's harder for me to find some one i like, though i have. finally, lol.


Use condoms. Don't wanna get a girl pregnant...morning after pill! Plus, being a virgin isn't that big a deal;except you might get teased a shitload, though if you have pickup skills and demonstrate you CAN get laid not as much.



True, but even if you've been taught all the lessons, experience is still extre***y important, it is very difficult; if not impossible to teach experience.


it's always been completely on my mind to use condoms, in fact, the only reason i didn't have them before was if i knew i was gonna get laid i was going to be a man and buy them myself. but, of course my parents are dipshits and don't know me as a person and bought me condoms when they found out i got a girlfriend. i was like, wtf, i've been dating her 2 weeks and you think i'm fucking her? wtf, my parents are dumb.

but yeah, i have condoms, lol.


And you're absolutely correct, experience is a big thing. Only problem i'd have with being a player is i dont like as wide a variety of girls, and not as many girls like me for how i dress (all black, usually). but fuck it, i have myself and i dont care, ha.

though i swear, the first month of me having a girlfriend, literally like 8 chicks suddenly got very interested in me and totally wanted me, ha. and i'm singer in my band and i use that for confidence, especially when we're at a party playing, i become the life of the fucking party :] which is great for me.


and lastly
Looks like someone else gets it, though I do gotta say you never know what you are gonna get from party girls.

if there's one thing i think i can say about myself is that i get it.
i get how women work, it's not that hard. i know how to get laid, and how to get a relationship.

the irony is now that i've almost just learned all this, i'm in a relationship and don't have the chance to test my new game XD because i'm faithful to my girlfriend :d

[CHEETZzz]

omg that was so long

[a2thae]

i fucking like you, a2thae. no homo, lol
that was an actually good analysis of my reply, nice.


1. Yes, Tucker Max has had sex with girls in the high triple digits.

2. my highschool is sort of small, but that's not the problem really... i hate preppy girls and like idk, darker girls... because i'm a darker kind of person. so naturally, since i'm part of a minority social group, it's harder for me to find some one i like, though i have. finally, lol.

Not bad high triple digits. Magic Johnson banged over 10,000 girls or something like that by 30. Dunno why people keep track, personally I don't care that much.

I see, girls of your taste aren't in abundance at your school.

it's always been completely on my mind to use condoms, in fact, the only reason i didn't have them before was if i knew i was gonna get laid i was going to be a man and buy them myself. but, of course my parents are dipshits and don't know me as a person and bought me condoms when they found out i got a girlfriend. i was like, wtf, i've been dating her 2 weeks and you think i'm fucking her? wtf, my parents are dumb.

but yeah, i have condoms, lol.

haha, but I've actually noticed something with girls...

Girls who have sex with you FAST are still open to having a relationship. Girls who don't have sex with you fast will make you wait to see if you worthy judging from the relationship. The only difference is you, if you have sex with a gal early in the "relationship" she will still be open to the relationship, but if you don't she might make you prove yourself etc.

But if you try to have sex with her fast and you don't know what you're doing you can fuck everything up. So if you don't have experience I'd reccommend taking it slow..

And you're absolutely correct, experience is a big thing. Only problem i'd have with being a player is i dont like as wide a variety of girls, and not as many girls like me for how i dress (all black, usually). but fuck it, i have myself and i dont care, ha.

though i swear, the first month of me having a girlfriend, literally like 8 chicks suddenly got very interested in me and totally wanted me, ha. and i'm singer in my band and i use that for confidence, especially when we're at a party playing, i become the life of the fucking party :] which is great for me.

Eh looks don't determine attraction as much as personality does.

Being the life of the party doesn't exactly HURT haha.

The reason the girls became interested in you was because of your exclusiveness from your new girl. People naturally want what they can't have, and might have had hidden feelings for you but now are jealous etc.

You've given them a great gift, the gift of missing your singleness.

and lastly


if there's one thing i think i can say about myself is that i get it.
i get how women work, it's not that hard. i know how to get laid, and how to get a relationship.

the irony is now that i've almost just learned all this, i'm in a relationship and don't have the chance to test my new game XD because i'm faithful to my girlfriend :d

It's better to have the skill and not need it, than to need the skill and not have it.

[Cerron Pyra]

Be the alpha male. Every chick wants the alpha male, the chick who is with the alpha male by default becomes the alpha female. That is what chicks really want.

WRONG WRONG WRONG. Any guy can get any girl he wants. it is all in the way u approch them. find out what they like in a guy, then be that guy. then slowly bring your real self in. it has work for me for years.

(sorry if this makes no sence to you guys. ill edit this when i sober up.)

[numerator-91]

find out what they like in a guy, then be that guy

BAM!!! You subconciously agreed with my point. Be what the girl wants, most girls want the alpha male, they want a free ride up above the rest of the girls. So by being the alpha male you are being what thegirl wants.

[MissTruant]

I think your all fucked for trying to actually generically go through how to get a girl, any one at any time.

[a2thae]

WRONG WRONG WRONG. Any guy can get any girl he wants. it is all in the way u approch them. find out what they like in a guy, then be that guy. then slowly bring your real self in. it has work for me for years.

(sorry if this makes no sence to you guys. ill edit this when i sober up.)

Not really...the approach is important, but it's not "all in the approach". You don't have to be their dream guy for them to be attracted to you.

::EDIT:: Slowly bring your real self in? So you pretend to be something that you aren't to get with girls?

[numerator-91]

I think your all fucked for trying to actually generically go through how to get a girl, any one at any time.

Was that directed at me?

[MissTruant]

Was that directed at me?


Only if you think girls can all be attraced and "reeled in" the same way.;)

[a2thae]

Only if you think girls can all be attraced and "reeled in" the same way.;)

...each girl is unique, but see if you can name like 5 girls who don't love confidence, a mystery, or humor, or a combination of all of those in a guy.

[Miss_Minx]

i don't really care about the alpha male i just like hot guys

[[ g h o s t ]]

Rohypnol is quicker.

[charlee]

is that were Roofy comes from?

[a2thae]

Damnit, date rape is not a part of relationships ghost.

[numerator-91]

It can be, It just makes it a not very good relationship.

[a2thae]

6. Date Rape is -not- part of relationships.

Rule number 6, I believe I put that there thanks to GunMetal.

[drugfeind]

lol the first couple things i told my currentgirlfreind where "i do lots of drugs, im poor as hell" and she thought i had a good personality so know i am dating her and we are going strong i think shes my soulmate. she is rich, and she says drugs are the biggest turnoff ever. it was because i am different than other guys that she likes me. every week i get suicidal and i tell her and she says "matt dont put me through this again baby" i put her in tears. tomarrow im giving her a gold/diamond ring, i hope she likes it ;)

i forgot to say. i get suicidal because my family always calls me worthless and stupid, my freinds all moved away except 1, withdrawal from drugs, wanting to get away from this cruel world, oh yes and all my old freinds hate me!!!!

[a2thae]

lol the first couple things i told my currentgirlfreind where "i do lots of drugs, im poor as hell" and she thought i had a good personality so know i am dating her and we are going strong i think shes my soulmate. she is rich, and she says drugs are the biggest turnoff ever. it was because i am different than other guys that she likes me. every week i get suicidal and i tell her and she says "matt dont put me through this again baby" i put her in tears. tomarrow im giving her a gold/diamond ring, i hope she likes it ;)

i forgot to say. i get suicidal because my family always calls me worthless and stupid, my freinds all moved away except 1, withdrawal from drugs, wanting to get away from this cruel world, oh yes and all my old freinds hate me!!!!

Are you depressed, from like a chemical inbalance? if not, I'd say quit feeling sorry for yourself, if you are, get some fuckin prozac or something.

[drugfeind]

you are just like all the others. its not my fault im antisocial, depressed, social anxiety, schitzophrenic. fuck, my family puts me down even more every time they talk to me. i have multiple personality also like fuck people saying things bad to me makes me sad times 1 million. lol i do beleive that most people who are suicidal are also depressed (sarcasm). i can go from the happiest person in the world to the saddest. ive been on about 20 different anti-depressants and they all made me slow in the head and body id rather be all over the board than just super ***low and TOTALLY antisocial. anyway im sorry im talking so much i just enjoy "venting" to people who can't hurt me emotionally.

[a2thae]

What the fuck are you on about? I wasn't attacking you dipshit. I'm going to guess you have a chemical imbalance.

[drugfeind]

I have quite the "chemical imbalance", yes. I can't help it though, please don't be an ass to me i have had enouph of assholes bitching at me. I'll go smoke a joint and be happy... lol maybe 2 joints? in the morning.

[Mercury]

Becoming the alpha male only gets you the slutty girls and one stands usually, if that's what you're into then go for it. Otherwise I say, become the nicest asshole you can be. This is a little hard to describe, but show her that you are the one with the fucking pants. Being too nice will drive her away because she doesn't want to be with someone she gets along with all the fucking time, how fucking *****g is that?

Also, force yourself a little bit onto her, don't rape her. Don't get into any legal trouble either, that's the worst thing to do.