how to tell if a girl is into you

[deathlord888]

i kinda got a double date thing going on tomorrow night, my friend asked me to go on a date with him, his girlfriend and her bestfriend, now i have talked to this chick a bit on facebook and stuff, how can i tell if she is into me tomorrow? how would i know if giving her a good night is a good idea?

[numerator-91]

Just fucking wing it man.
And will people stop posting about how they keep talking to some chick on Mysapce, facebook, msn etc and then want to know if they can hook in. Just do things the od fashion way, get some balls and talk to the ladies face to face. Phone calls are acceptable.

[CHEETZzz]

I agree with Num, and also add that face-to-face talking is the best way because 1. they can't think out their answers, and 2. you have the extra body language/contact factor.

fuck phone calls,
FUCK myspace
FUCK txting

it's all shit compared to the real thing, just throwing it out there.
you won't know shit about the person til you've met them in real life, i know this from experience. plus, chicks dig guys that have the confidence to talk to them


and deathlord, if you really need help (and i think you sort of do in this subject, it's true dude), i seriously recommend reading nultiple threads and posts from here::

http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/forumdisplay.php?f=17


let's see if Num recognizes that.
and btw, i am dead serious. the info on that site changed my life.

[numerator-91]

Tucker Max is the master of the pick up...and the sha***ess humiliation of being tricked into getting a chlamydia test.

[freetibet]

stick your penis in her mouth and see how she reacts to that.

[Buddha]

Just say "nice shoes wanna scew?"

[deathlord888]

haha naw im serious guys, we are going to the movies tonight i just want to know if she is into me at all, i dont want to fuck this up

[freetibet]

you could bump her hand and see if she moves or stays still.

If she doesn't move you can proceed to stick you tongue down her throat. haha

[deathlord888]

haha that is a good idea well the first part, but we are not going tonight anyway.. fuck...

[CHEETZzz]

oh, pwnt

and yeah the movies sort of suck for picking up chicks
thats more of a first date kinda place
me and my gf went over break and it wasnt anything big, cuz we're used to more fun things. lol.

and yeah the best place to pick up a good chick for you is a place you actually want to be/are interested in.

me being an example, i met my girlfriend at a party after my band played ;)
she totally digged my screaming, haha

[CHEETZzz]

Tucker Max is the master of the pick up...and the sha***ess humiliation of being tricked into getting a chlamydia test.

i had WWTD on my knuckles for like a week after i learned of his ways
he's a sex god amongst men.

btw deathlord, did you read that site?

hmm i think this'll be a double post.
woops
oh well, i can get away with it XP

[freetibet]

I always meet my gfs through people. Like blind date or friend of a friend.

Doesn't help me here though since I don't know anybody within my traveling distance.

edit*

FUCK YOU!

that is all

[deathlord888]

I always meet my gfs through people. Like blind date or friend of a friend.

Doesn't help me here though since I don't know anybody within my traveling distance.

edit*

FUCK YOU!

that is all

ya i usually get them on my own i am just slow at it

[deathlord888]

i had WWTD on my knuckles for like a week after i learned of his ways
he's a sex god amongst men.

btw deathlord, did you read that site?

hmm i think this'll be a double post.
woops
oh well, i can get away with it XP

ya it does pwn thanks guys

[a2thae]

i kinda got a double date thing going on tomorrow night, my friend asked me to go on a date with him, his girlfriend and her bestfriend, now i have talked to this chick a bit on facebook and stuff, how can i tell if she is into me tomorrow? how would i know if giving her a good night is a good idea?

The best advice I can give you is to hold eye contact right when you first see her until she looks away. This is very important, you don't wanna avert you're eyes the second you meet. In fact, try to hold the eye contact everytime you make it. She will definitely notice this whether it is subconscious or conscious. Just don't be staring at her when your eyes aren't locked (and only stare into her eyes)

Pay attention to her body language, if she is really into the conversation you're having or if her mind is drifting to other places..

Pay attention to YOUR body language. You don't wanna be sending off the wrong signals, body language accounts for like 70% of communication. When you sit, get used to having good posture, maintain a confident pose with your head tilted slightly back.

When your standing look up with your head tilted slightly back. Do not look down as your body language is saying "I'm not that confident, i am somewhat of a wuss"

Uhhh...the best way to tell if she was into you was to invite her to go somewhere alone for a sec, like for a walk, find an excuse to chill for a sec, but up to a half hour ideally. Talk, while leaning back etc. (personally this route is somewhat risky)

Then make her laugh and whatnot, and once she is laughing, and smiling and you two make a connection (I gotta hope you got SOME game) do what is called the "kiss test," reach your hand out (try to make sure it's not shaking) while establishing eye contact, and run it down her hair and gently (but so she can hear them) say these words while holding the eye contact, "Your hair is so soft..". Keep stroking her hair. If she's smiling, and doesn't seem to mind it, then she is open to kissing you. If she is open to kissing you then she is somewhat into you. If she is open to kissing, go in for the kill! I'm not gonna walk you past that part though..cuz idk if you are even gonna read this before you go on ya date.

If you pick a bad vibe or if she hits your hand away that is O.K. that might mean one of two things:

She doesn't want to be rushed

She isn't attracted to you enough yet, or isn't comfortable enough to be alone with you

If she hits it away, just go back to being chill, lean back, and be like "Woah, what do I owe you 20$? Not givin your shit away for free eh?" or somethin along those lines and sound playful and hopefully she has a sense of humor..or if you pick up a bad vibe, do the same...then she will generally get more comfortable.

But be SURE YOUR THE ONE WHO SAYS TIME TO GO FIRST (with the walk thing...you suggested it, so you end it). That is fairly important..psychological type thing for the girl

There are some tips which'll help ya out. Remember to keep a confident mentality and keep BELIEVING that she will fall for you if you play your cards right. Gals go for personality over looks mostly, so yeah. If you aren't confident you'll have less success but success isn't impossible. oh well. Speak loud enough so she can hear you properly..i'd go over tonality but fuck it

Personally I like to establish friends firstt once they are attracted (fucks them up in their mind, and they wonder if they did something wrong...it's great to see hahaha), but since you're already are goin, idk what i'd do, i'd prolly not go down that path this timee..

Go get em grasshopper

ya i usually get them on my own i am just slow at it

::EDIT:: This tells me you have little game. shit. Oh well, I still think you can do it...go fo the shiz

[deathlord888]

reach your hand out (try to make sure it's not shaking)





haha i actually laughed out loud on that, but that is good advice man, i am fine talking to them, i just dont seem to pick up if a girl is interested in me or not at all. i am not nervous talking to them and stuff like that i just never seem to know if i should kiss her or leave it alone

[a2thae]

I find the kiss test works rather well to see if they are willing to kiss you. It is ingenius because it's subtle, and isn't really threatening.

I damn near always use it for first dates. Otherwise, I just go for it when I see her laughing, having a good time, it has been a bit while chillin, and she seems comfortable. She's in a good mood so why not? The only risk is that you don't wanna force the kiss, which is why you don't go the full distance etc

Gals will let it happen if it seems like it is "meant to be"

Goodluck dude

[freetibet]

that was a really long tutorial on dating hahaha

For first kiss i'd say keep eye contact and look at her lips for a second so she knows you did. If your dropping her off or something and your both staring at each other she probably wants to kiss. If she looks somewhere else she probably thinks your a loser. lol

"Woah, what do I owe you 20$? Not givin your shit away for free eh?"

don't say that... ever...

[{Christopher}]

I guess you Fellas have never heard of a little wonder drug called GHB.

[deathlord888]

lol date rape is not cool

[a2thae]

that was a really long tutorial on dating hahaha

For first kiss i'd say keep eye contact and look at her lips for a second so she knows you did. If your dropping her off or something and your both staring at each other she probably wants to kiss. If she looks somewhere else she probably thinks your a loser. lol

"Woah, what do I owe you 20$? Not givin your shit away for free eh?"

don't say that... ever...

It's all about HOW you say it. If you say it like you mean it, and she thinks you mean it, then it was a bad idea to say it.

But when you're flirting, you can say almost anything because it's FUNNY, it's supposed to be fun. When you have that flirtatious vibe going, and you say it in a flirtatious way its great.

You can do almost anything if you have enough authority to get away with it.

So in short, only say that if you can pull it off. And trust me, it is quite easy to pull off...Hinting she could be a prostitute, when it's clear she's not, is good stuff etc.

Btw, those were just quick tips

[deathlord888]

haha i found out hinting a girl could be bi is not a good idea, or when they say they are horny all the time saying they are like your dog can also kill it

[a2thae]

haha i found out hinting a girl could be bi is not a good idea, or when they say they are horny all the time saying they are like your dog can also kill it

It's all about the way you say it. But comparing them to a dog...eh that would be hard to get away with. Sayin they are bi is great, if they are comfortable with their sexuality, and you say it in the correct way.

If they take it horribly, keep the face straight, and if they are serious after like 30 seconds you can always take the wuss route, be like "Jeez, relax, I'm just playin with you" (I like to avoid doing this.)

Just know what you can, and can't pull off.

btw, Did your double thing-y go alright deathlord888?

[deathlord888]

naw it didnt end up happening. i felt wicked sick anyway. but apparently she didnt really want to and her friend was making her. o well.

thanks anyway tho

[a2thae]

Damn that sucks about you feelin sick..

But even if the girl was being "forced" you could still ignite a spark of attraction, you are being presented with an opportunity to test your skills when it comes to makin members of the opposite sex interested.

So, don't feel bad about that, though she might be either relieved or pissed that you flaked..

[deathlord888]

i didnt flake, she did. i just had a mad big head ache but i was going to go anyway because i dont ditch.

[cstrikehero]

stick your penis in her mouth and see how she reacts to that.

HAHA.. best way by far..

[a2thae]

sigh, was that necessary cstrike?

Commenting on someone elses post just sayin how "cool" it is, isn't really staying on topic. I'm officially warning you.

[Deetinator]

Yeah man!!! I love getting fucked by horses! YAY!! Right in the ass, someone please rape me.

But yeah, its different with every girl. If she seems outgoing right when you first talk to her, that means that it'll probably be a little more than just eye contact that will tell you she likes you. If she seems a little shy though, then things like that will be a good barometer. Got what I'm saying?

[semperfi556]

Just act fairly interested in her but don't push it, girls hate it when you act desperate.

[charlee]

well for future reference, you can tell. its not really anything you can explain. but find her interests, talk to her, if shes all smiley and is having a good time, then more then likley, yeah.

[AssRot]

bumped for justice. I need this, peeps

[deathlord888]

lol thanks, and nice quote

[AssRot]

Hehe no problem. If I can touch the girl I like, and she doesnt seem to mind, like her hair and her arm this is a good sign yes?

[deathlord888]

it could be idk, i always play fight with this chick and stuff but we are just friends so idk

[a2thae]

Hehe no problem. If I can touch the girl I like, and she doesnt seem to mind, like her hair and her arm this is a good sign yes?

Yes, but I wouldn't do it too much because it gives a sign of insecurity/clingyness.

There are times when you can do it, times when you should do it, times when you can do it but shouldn't(where it would be better to lean back and chill), and times when you don't do it.

[a2thae]

it could be idk, i always play fight with this chick and stuff but we are just friends so idk

One of my favorite things to do after she does something slightly embarassing, or says something I can interpret as innuendo is I grab a napkin/tissue, and hit them in the arm with it, and say "You're bad, tsk tsk tsk." or "You're so embarassing" (It generates practically no force.)

It seems to trigger a more playful mood.

[AssRot]

god dammit come to school with me

[a2thae]

Wing men ftw?

If I shaved I might be able to do it. You live too far away assrot. It can never happen.

[freetibet]

if you shaved? wtf

[ItsAPoorlyKeptSecret]

Um guys? not to ruin your party here but I dont feel like reading the past 3 pages, but by any chance did an actuall girl give any input?

[deathlord888]

if you shaved? wtf

one day you will be able to grow a beard, and shaving gets rid of it

[Dracus124]

when you meet her in person on the double date you gotta walk up to her, and stick your junk in her face dude, that always works.

[a2thae]

when you meet her in person on the double date you gotta walk up to her, and stick your junk in her face dude, that always works.

Shut the fuck up and die. (This is a warning, don't make idiotic posts like this)

[a2thae]

if you shaved? wtf

I started growing a beard at 15 man. When I'm shaved a look a lot younger.