talking to girls at school

[deathlord888]

i am horrible at talking to girls
here is my problem
there is this girl i want to talk to at my school i always see her alone walking around how would i go up and talk to her with out looking like a creeper?
i dont know anything about her i dont even know her name
i dont know any of her friends also
any ideas?

[Obscurum14]

Well are you in any of her classes? The 'I missed something in class, could you help me out' line could be a starting point for a conversation.

[CHEETZzz]

dude, if it were me, just randomly go up to her when she's not going anywhere or anything and be completely honest with her and say

hey, so i don't know your name! i'm *deathlord888*. :D

start out with something like that to break the ice, or find some clever way to talk to her at least once face to face, that way it won't be weird next time.

then next time casually say something like,

"So hey you're a pretty awesome person. We should hang out sometime or something :]"

remember, be honest the whole time. Honest, but try to keep it on a semi-need-to-know basis. Don't say something like,

"I was wondering if my 9 inch penis would fit in your ass or if i'd have to settle with only going in halfway"

lol

and if possible,
GET A WINGMAN

find someone to get your back and make you look badass and help make things less awkward and possibly spur some sorts of hug action etc.


then tell me how it goes!

[illegal543]

just go with something along the lines of "ive seen you around and thought you were really cute and i would like to get to know you." dont forget to introduce yourself and ALWAYS approach her from the front so you dont scare her or seem creepy or anything. also when you walk up to her smile and if she smiles back then thats a green light to go talk to her. and after you finally start talking to her just ask her a few open ended questions and kinda get to know her, or if youre really nervous justgo with the opener i gave you and say something like "i actually have to be somewhere right now, but heres my number so if you would be interested in doing anything call/txt me" the benefit of giving her your number is that its a less intimidating to her because then she has the choice of whether or not she wants to contact you. also by going up to her you show a lot of confidence and girls find that really attractive and will almost always contact you (unless you were really fucking weird)

[LiveWire]

Just make an excuse to talk to her.
Or go up to her and say something really random...
Then be like "Hey i don't really know you, whats your name ae?"- or something like that
and give her a look like you're interested in getting to know her.
make sure you end the conversation with something that indicates you'll see her around.
from then on just always say hi to her.
THEN ask her to hang out- otherwise she has no time to think about it so she might answer no and then regret it

Trust me, i'm a girl. lol

[deathlord888]

haha thanks for all the help
and cheetz my name is mike

[freetibet]

ok here's the plan

First, slide up to the bar
then say "I can't believe how f*cking fat your are"
tell her you like the way her titties shake
and that if she lost some weight she'd look like ricky lake

[deathlord888]

haha or not

[CHEETZzz]

Aiight MIKE
haha

yeah basically my advice was best and first so i win.

and did you talk to her at all today?

[Xon]

And seriously dude, don't try to be someone your not. Life's to short to try and be someone else. But remember, comedy is key. My honest opinion is don't use a Wingman. Sorry CHEETZzz but I have seen my brother burn so many times because of a wingman. (not me) It also shows you are insecure. And trust me, women pick up on that fast. Be confident, maybe even a little overconfident. Not that she will like overconfident, but like you know who the hell you are, and what the fuck you are doing. I did that the first year of college, damn, wrong thing to do if you want a low profile.

[deathlord888]

well i decided to
FACEBOOK HER!!!!!!!!
but no i havent seen her in person in a few days
i am hardly actually at school

[Buddha]

Walk up to her and say "nice shoes wanna go see a movie?"

[Xon]

facebook.... wow.... how old are you deathlord?

[deathlord888]

17
i got it all figured out
i sent her a message saying sorry i added the wrong person
then she will say it is ok
i will say i think i have seen you at school
then we talk
i get her MSN/AIM
then i give her my cell number and it is set

[Xon]

wow. Okay, I definitely remember doing that shit. Dude, it is better to get personal by actually talking to her. The internet makes everything like that fuck up. To her you are just some kid chatting to her through the internet. Nothing important. If you go up and talk to her. You give her a bigger picture. You let her know, hey, i am here and i am interested in you. The internet will never allow for the 70% body language to seep through and tell her more about you, and visa versa than walking up to her in person.

So are you a junior or senior?

[deathlord888]

im in grade 12
i am fine once i get talking to girls
just i am no good at the first approach
ya good point i should just go talk to her

[Xon]

12th grade. Prime of you life. Definitely man. Go talk to her. Good Luck. I know fun it is to go introduce yourself in person.

[deathlord888]

thanks a lot for the help man

[Xon]

Never a problem. If you ever have any questions dealing with people, let me know. I have an uncanny ability to help. (I say uncanny because I never really wanted it. I just have it)

[deathlord888]

haha ya this is one area i am horrible in
i am not to good with people
i have friends and everything
it is just i suck at meeting new people
o well
if you ever need help with computers let me know

[Xon]

Lol. I will if I run into anything really bad. Its been a long time since I needed to ask someone about computers though. (I am still a nerd...) But I will let you know if I need any help. Ha, just thought of one. How the hell to do I change the yourdomain.com name in a phpbb3 forum page title? I am setting one up and for the life of me I forgot how to do it.

Never mind. I found it.

[deathlord888]

haha ok good
because i have never done that
O are you talking about the very top page with the blue bar (if you are running XP)

[Xon]

Yeah, well, it is the page title of a website. I think that what you are thinking about it correct. I run chrome so I don't really remember what xp ie looks like. Who manages ACB?

[deathlord888]

the anarchist does
and my plan did not work
she says i have no clue who you are and then removed me from her friends
damn

[Xon]

Okay, gotcha.

I told, you have to talk to her in person. That internet crap usually doesn't work.

[deathlord888]

haha ya you were right
but ya the anarchist is hardly ever on

[Xon]

Why isn't he on a lot? Is he a noob or does he know what he is doing?

Yeah, girl problems are usually my thing. You still have plenty of shots though. Don't worry.

[deathlord888]

he is ~30 years old haha
so he has other worries

[CHEETZzz]

First off, listen to Xon, he's been giving good advice. *applauds Xon*

and second off, i should be more specific. Only use a wingman if you have a fucking GOOD wingman. Not anyone will do. Not your good friends. You need someone that knows what they're doing and has practice at it. Like my best friend helped me out with my current girlfriend, and actually her best friend talked with mine and sped it all up. :D

So yeah.

Advice #2 that Xon talked about.
NEVER USE THE INTERNET/ANY TEXT BASED TECHNOLOGY TO:

a.) ask out a girl
b.) break up with a girl
c.) meet a girl

it will work 100,000 times better in person, even if you act like a tard the first time, it'll get better if you keep talking to them.

Talking to girls online was one of the reason i got fucked in real life.

[deathlord888]

ya i learned my lesson haha
thanks for all the help guys

[Raditude]

Yeah I tried talking to girls at school... then Chris Hansen came out.

http://img442.imageshack.us/img442/6954/1188994406433346a87dgi3.jpg

[Xon]

Never a problem... Definitely listen to Cheetzz if you need help. Don't use a good friend. Use someone who knows what they are doing. (note: I have been a wingman, but I was not "at his side" helping. More of intros and helping them find similarities)

[TotalAnarchyUK]

I thought it was hard to talk to girls, till I got laid. 1 bit of advice I was given when I was younger.. Fake it until you make it ( meaning convidence ). Doesnt matter if you come off as abit arrogant or cocky, girls love it :)

[Xon]

If you want to get laid, then go find a chick and get laid. But if you really like the girl and want more than just a shallow life, be yourself. But remember, yourself, at your age, if a very fluid concept. You can change especially for some girl.

[deathlord888]

ya i can go get laid if i want to
but they are slutty chicks and i actually want a girl i would really like

[Zamato Elite]

Here is the secret to high school dating: Don't do it.

[Xon]

Sounds like you would say that masturbation is better than sex. Date while you can. Otherwise, when your 40 (if you ever get there) you can remember the times when life was so carefree and childish. Plus, you are more likely to get some throughout your life if you can become comfortable with women. Dating is just a haphazard of becoming comfortable with each other.

[TotalAnarchyUK]

If you want to get laid, then go find a chick and get laid. But if you really like the girl and want more than just a shallow life, be yourself. But remember, yourself, at your age, if a very fluid concept. You can change especially for some girl.

Exactly, but mine was the reverse lol I spent the ages of 12-15 getting girlfriends and bieng all sweet and shit and now I hunt the love hole like rednecks hunt obama.

I can hear them now

"God damn niggers running our country, bieng all black like!"

[MISFlT]

so ehh... what happened to the girl? make it or are you still working on it?

[numerator-91]

In regards to the wingman idea, what you want is a wing-chick. This works much more efficiently as she is more likely to trust another girl than the male counterpart. If you can get in good stride with one of her friends you may be able to get some insider information and have someone put in a good word for you.

[Xon]

Yeah, but if he is having trouble with talking to a girl, I doubt he will have the ability to get a wing-girl.

[deathlord888]

actually i could get a wing girl >.<
i am fine with girls untill i am interested in them

[TotalAnarchyUK]

actually i could get a wing girl >.<
i am fine with girls untill i am interested in them

You mean until you start listening to your dick lol.

[LiveWire]

wing girl... thats a good idea if you don't want to just go and talk to her on your own
though don't rely on your friend too much or the chick you like will think you don't have balls... and thats not really the desired effect.

[deathlord888]

You mean until you start listening to your dick lol.

haha pretty much ya

[Xon]

Man only has enough blood for either his dick or his brain. So either way, he is fucked.

[deathlord888]

haha ya thats true

[kevql]

Didn't read all the posts and can't be bothered to.
Just grow some balls and go talk to her. Seriously whats the worst thing that can happen? Just go up to with some damn courage and start talking about funny ass shit.