Why don't they stay

[Maggotsfriend]

Ok I'm asking if any of you get this problem.

I am never short of offers but girls never seem to stick passed the 2-3 month line and seem to just make excuses on why its just not me.

I've had I'm not ready for a relationship I enjoy being single, I don't have time for a guy when she doesn't make the effort, I've had a few who just say that its not going to work and some who don't give me reasons?

Do any of you have problems sustaining a relationship past 3 months?

[freetibet]

maybe you get too clingy?

[deathlord888]

for me it is 3 days - 3 weeks
i seem to get girls to like me at first
then something goes down hilll
i dont really know lol

[freetibet]

3 days? that sucks!

my guess is you guys get too excited and it turns yo ladies off. You have to make them want the relationship more than you. And if you're calling every day and stuff like that your giving control over to her, and chances are she'll dump you when that happens..

but i don't really know cuz my typical relationship lasts like 2 months. :)

[Kasnia]

Yeah... I've only had two relationships that lasted more than 4 months, and before that it was mostly 2weeks-3months. And almost every time I've been dumped, it's been a stupid excuse that I knew was a lie, and they didn't tell me it was a lie for months or even years.

[deathlord888]

naw they just leave before we date usually

[freetibet]

Yeah... I've only had two relationships that lasted more than 4 months, and before that it was mostly 2weeks-3months. And almost every time I've been dumped, it's been a stupid excuse that I knew was a lie, and they didn't tell me it was a lie for months or even years.

well at least they told you eventually. If everyone could just be honest with each other in regards to dating the world would be a better place

[Kasnia]

well at least they told you eventually. If everyone could just be honest with each other in regards to dating the world would be a better place

Yeah... I would really rather have people tell me straight up from the beginning, rather than lie and me have to find out about it later. Because I've had people tell me [a], I think/know it's [b], something very shortly after confirms my story yet they still deny it, and I found out later on down the road that it's not JUST [b], but it's also [c] as well, which makes things even worse. I admit, I haven't told all of my ex's everything. But they don't suspect anything and I'm not going to tell them just because after like a year or more of being broken up, it would be weird just to bring it up out of nowhere. If I were to tell them at ALL, I wouldn't wait. I'd either lie all the time or tell the truth all the time (and it's almost always telling the truth.)

[freetibet]

a girl I can talk to about dating girls! yay! haha

anyways... from my experience honesty is usually best, you just got to be sure you don't mention your attractions to other girls (or guys). My longest relationship i was the most honest in, but it also sucked a$$ so i dunno what to take from that

[CHEETZzz]

If everyone could just be honest with each other in regards to dating the world would be a better place

from my experience honesty is usually best

Trust in the great and infinite knowledge of Tucker fucking Max.

ALWAYS BE 100% HONEST

[LiveWire]

Honesty is good, though sometimes there are things you just don't share.

[oros]

Well, it seems like they get tired of you after a while when they know all your buddys, and how you are and react to stuff. i know what it's like, and it sux.
I think you should be more unpredictable to not make them get tired of you, and i shall try this myself :p

[Maggotsfriend]

I seriously have know Idea I never try get in there face and clingy but I try be around enough to keep them happy I think I'm just unlucky and get the real head cases.

[oros]

I'm just unlucky and get the real head cases.

Ah, so you got the hot girls who have some pretty high standards you got to live up too. that not bad either ;)

[Maggotsfriend]

They all just have some fucked up shit about them I've been stalked by one ex for a whole month before my girlfriend at the time clocked her I must be a magnet to fucked up people.

[Maggotsfriend]

I couldn't say I've ever liked the girls I've dated I more or less give them all a chance. I've only ever liked one girl I've dated and I could honestly say never to date a girl who was molested at an early age cause she was a real head case but I did care for her til she did the whole I don't know what I want. Plus she was real touchy when It came to sex and stuff.

[dthncrnge]

I go through about 4 days before girls find out about my "reputation" (arrests/suspensions/expulsions/gang-relations)

And then, I get punted if the girl is to nice. (I like girls to be nice, it makes up for what I am.)

[drugfeind]

ok most guys like myself think we are getting the tail(pussy,cock,sex) but my freind told me to make it out like the girl is getting the tail from you...i think it just might work lol...hes from newfoundland so it might just be a stupid idea lol but i think the jist of it is to play "hard to get" and tease the girl a bit

[Zamato Elite]

Fuck relationships. Don't stress over them. Just fuck a girl and forget about her.

Jeez, who the hell would want to be in a relationship. That's like signing a contract with the devil.

[Phoenix Fire]

Coming from the "love is gay" man.

[Kasnia]

Fuck relationships. Don't stress over them. Just fuck a girl and forget about her.

Jeez, who the hell would want to be in a relationship. That's like signing a contract with the devil.

I'd sell my soul any day to be in love. And I think it takes courage to be in love. Some people talk about how they're sooo in love, when they're really not. But to truely love someone means to give yourself to them completely. It's hard to do, but to actually be able to is quite lovely. ^_^

[Zamato Elite]

I'd sell my soul any day to be in love. And I think it takes courage to be in love. Some people talk about how they're sooo in love, when they're really not. But to truely love someone means to give yourself to them completely. It's hard to do, but to actually be able to is quite lovely. ^_^

Oh, so poetic. Unfortunately, "love" doesn't exist.

Love=Unhealthy Obsession

Haven't we already gone over this? lol

[Kasnia]

Yes, yes, we've gone over this. But at least I can share my unhealthy obsession with another person. It's not like I'm a stalker or anything.

[Zamato Elite]

Yes, yes, we've gone over this. But at least I can share my unhealthy obsession with another person. It's not like I'm a stalker or anything.

IDK, you sure do sound like a stalker. As long as your not in "love" with me, then I think we can all manage.

[Kasnia]

How can you love that which shows no emotion? Just kidding.

So quick question: I know you don't believe in people loving each other when in a relationship. You don't see the point in trying to fall in love, etc. What about when it comes to family? Can parents love their children, siblings love each other, and all that other goodness? Is that a totally different story in general, or how does it work for you?

[Maggotsfriend]

Its called a false love, unconditional.

[a2thae]

Ok I'm asking if any of you get this problem.

I am never short of offers but girls never seem to stick passed the 2-3 month line and seem to just make excuses on why its just not me.

I've had I'm not ready for a relationship I enjoy being single, I don't have time for a guy when she doesn't make the effort, I've had a few who just say that its not going to work and some who don't give me reasons?

Do any of you have problems sustaining a relationship past 3 months?

Getting a girl is easy. Once you have her it should be EASIER.

Dude. There is a BLARING reason that i can see immediately even while wasted. You were interesting in the beginning, but you began to bland out. She was just polite about it. It happens to a lot of guys who are "themselves" to get girls the nice guys who get *****g. What a girl really wants is that addictive emotional rush she gets from being around a guy she is attractive to, and from what it sounds like--you provide AFFECTION not attraction, and thus your relationship isn't super solid, which is why it dies after the 2-3months when you're yourself. You get *****gg..

You seem like the type to pull out all your "tricks" for the "game" out as fast as possible to catch her, and you seem to not be good a retaining her. Best advice i can give is be more spontaneous, see her HALF AS OFTEN DAMNIT..give her the gift of missing you.

Leave her alone in public, you seem rather insecure which is BAD BAD BAD

also you have a nazi symbol avatar so eat shit and die. and follow my advice. including the eat shit and die part.

[Maggotsfriend]

Lol pretty much wrong.

Can't say I get *****g maybe not having enough in common with her maybe the only flaw there but hey sue me.

[a2thae]

You may not seem *****g to yourself, and to others who get to know you; but if you become predictable that is almost as bad as *****g. Alls i know for sure was that there might have been attraction, but that slowly turned to affection, and now you are where you are now.