porn negatively affecting relationships?

[freetibet]

I've heard that looking at porn has the potential to damage your future relationships. I've heard it makes you orgasm sooner and less pleasurably. I've heard it makes you "impossible to satisfy" sexually and lots of other bad things.

Does anyone think there is any truth to this? Any personal experiences?

I think porn might have hurt one of my past relationships. Am I crazy? lol

[deathlord888]

if anything it will make you last longer
remember the first time you had an orgasm?
didnt take very long
then now it is much longer
it justs builds up your resistance

[Shanx]

I agree with death. Why would it make you last sooner?

As for the satisfaction, wouldnt it be better because you've been jackin your shit for so long that its time for something different? Probably better I would guess.

[oros]

I've heard that you don't do asgood around girls if you masturbate. I use to try to don't have any sexuall activity for as long a possible :)

[Zamato Elite]

LOL who cares. Porn is fucking awesome. Possibly better then real life sex.

[Maggotsfriend]

I for one jerked off a lot in my earlier years and compared to my mate who didn't when it came round to his fist shag BAM 1 minute and it slowly improved but its still pitiful as for me the guy who did it to much when it came to my first shag it lasted and hour.

With sex you get out what you put in?

[Raist]

The only problem with porn is beating it too much. You should refrain from masturbation for like 2 days before you fool around with a girl. If not you'll have shitty sex for a long time and not get off. Also it's bigger if you haven't jerked it in a while.

[Phoenix Fire]

Porn !

[Palm3R]

This is very similar to what I said in "Ghostfacekiller's" thread:
http://www.anarchistcookbook.com/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=208105
Actually, this thread has the same answer as ghostfacekiller's thread (which is in my quote below).

BTW, Raist and Deathlord888 are right. It will make you last longer because it makes you "impossible to please" (so to speak). And masturbation can mess up your sex pretty bad.


I think people who watch porn are pathetic...
Not the kind of person that will watch it every here and there out of boredom, but the people that watch it daily and beat off to it constantly.

It's normal for people to watch porn and what not, but having so much access to it makes people want it more.
That is actually a scientific fact.
Dopemines, which is basically a natural chemical in your brain (A.K.A. "neurotransmitter"), that will send a signal telling your body what you need and don't need as much. This is where addictions of all sorts come from, such as sex, drugs, food, etc... That is also why anorexia is considered a "disease" because once you stop eating, your body feels as if you don't need it and it is rendered unnecessary for survival. Then more of the useless things can be seen as a "need for survival" to your body, even if you don't need it (like a constant excessive amount of something that is really unnecessary for survival).

The more people do it, the more they want it, and the more the have access to it, the more they get. In this case, it's pornography and physical stimulation. The more you do it, the more you feel like you need it, and if you have access to it, you will only keep "feeding" the problem (so-to-speak) and it will continually get worse and worse 'til you need some really hardcore shit just to get an erection.

In other words, yeah, it is a problem if you are the kind of person who can't break a simple habit.

I could get so much more detailed and scientific with this specific subject, but that's my summary and I think it gets my point across sufficiently.

[techtiger]

So the simple solution to this just get a porn start girl friend duh

[Palm3R]

So the simple solution to this just get a porn start girl friend duh

lol, exactly...

or just hire a prostitute...
jk, jk... but still...

[deathlord888]

So the simple solution to this just get a porn start girl friend duh

is your gf a pornstar then?

[sixtwentythree]

LOL who cares. Porn is fucking awesome. Possibly better then real life sex.

Clearly spoken by a guy who has never had sex (or really loves wanking :P)

[freetibet]

more likely loves wanking

pretty much anyone can get sex if they want it

[ramalamafafafa]

If wanking makes sex bad, i'm screwed!

[Zamato Elite]

Clearly spoken by a guy who has never had sex (or really loves wanking :P)

Actually I have had sex before (Prob more then you have). We have had this argument probably 4000 times already on this site. Go read my thread called "Sex is Stupid." It's about 40 pages of responses about whether I've been laid or not.

[Maggotsfriend]

I guess some people are sick of wasting time, money and effort.

[Mpuckett93]

Zamato I've read that thread!! haha but i beat off about 2-3 times a week, and i feel perfectly normal. I have a gf who i fuck every weekend, and I cum in about 20 minutes, and it feels good as fuck. So idc if I shouldn't watch porn. I'm good.

[oros]

you should not hold it too long either. you sex drive can decrease and maybe even almost disappear.

[Zamato Elite]

Zamato I've read that thread!! haha but i beat off about 2-3 times a week, and i feel perfectly normal. I have a gf who i fuck every weekend, and I cum in about 20 minutes, and it feels good as fuck. So idc if I shouldn't watch porn. I'm good.

What all the porn you want! lol I support it. I think it's just as good as being with a girl. A girl is a different experience then porn. Porn is more of a pleasurable experience for me, while actual sex is more intimate and retarded.

I only fuck girls if they come knockin' on my front doors. I am done playing the dating game. Too much trouble for what it is worth.

[a2thae]

cstrike..you brought this to life to say that? what the fuck.

Read the rules, necropost again, and I ban you for much longer. You're new so you get a little slack.

[ArcaneMethods]

It would make you last longer. Beating off is like playing sports, the more you do it, the longer you last. Consider it stamina training. However if you want to keep it in your pants out of fear you might break it, be my guest but don't come crying to me when you end up blowing your load like a shotgun because a girl bumps up against you.

[anarchyzombie]

hmm i guess but are you sure. i mean like wait wait ok...
ummm just asking does jerking it make you go longer or shorter hmm? anyone?

[randomguy949]

if you watch too much porn, then when you are making out with a REAL girl, its quite hard to get a boner, because your used to gettin a hard on from hardcore/full on stuff, no normal person/girlfriend would do. haha. its happened to me before, thisgirl was trying real hard, but frustrated i could get a hard on

meh thats my opinion :D

[Raist]

This thread is full of virgins. Or gays. Random guy is probably gay or just wanks way too much.

If you jerk a lot to porn you won't get off as easily, but when things get steamy you will get it up. Millions of years of evolution will ensure that.

[Cashis Clay]

if you watch too much porn, then when you are making out with a REAL girl, its quite hard to get a boner, because your used to gettin a hard on from hardcore/full on stuff, no normal person/girlfriend would do. haha. its happened to me before, thisgirl was trying real hard, but frustrated i could get a hard on

meh thats my opinion :D

yea dude you might be gay.

[randomguy949]

yea dude you might be gay.

lol, god no

it came out the wrong way what i said, of course im not gay :p

of course you get turned on, just that you watch stuff that would never happen...
gah dw, i cant be bothered to explain, it was a retarded idea in my head, and about it happening to me, that in true, that was just to make the story a little more interesting, of course i was bloody turned on by her :D

meh, forgget that post, i was in a weird mood

[charlee]

a gay mood lol.

anyway i know what your saying, but there are usually other reasons why you cant get wood.

[gatekeeper1]

i think that having a relation like mine is great....
we do things the way we want
if porno is wanted we get it from the web or just see a movie
i hope you guys have the same because i think it is great and hope that any person can have at least have of my fine and good feelings.......

[Blood]

Shit I jerk it like at least 6 times a day.
I've pulled my pork twice since i've been typing this.
kthx.

A simple way to check if you watch too much porn is
A)Get a boner.
B)Go to Youtube.
3)Lookup strip tease and try to bust.
If you bust then you're all good, but will probably blow your load early.
If you cant even get a boner, then you're fucked.

[BlAcCbArBi3101]

Well i think porn is great
cuz i remember when i was rollin wit ma ex- manz
and one day he was watchin porn den i got wet
then we started fucking
it really was good
so i really dont think that is the porn effecting you
i think its just ya self

[randomguy949]

Shit I jerk it like at least 6 times a day.
I've pulled my pork twice since i've been typing this.
kthx.

A simple way to check if you watch too much porn is
A)Get a boner.
B)Go to Youtube.
3)Lookup strip tease and try to bust.
If you bust then you're all good, but will probably blow your load early.
If you cant even get a boner, then you're fucked.

LOL! so true =)

Yeah, sadly some people cant get boners over normal stuff, they have to watch some pretty fucked up stuff just to get it hard

May try the test tonight.. not that i need too loll

[Wolkkkk]

Sex is an excuse for a bad masturbator

[kidinabarrel]

wow im deleting my porn right now... i mean i have noticed about this like you get more addicted to porn everytime u watch it and i got a gf and yeah well im gonna quit watching porn

[kidinabarrel]

also everytime i watch porn i get guilty caus i imagine im like cheating on my gf with a fuckin computer porn lol but still gets my guilt imean if ud walk on ur gf masturbating to guys wouldnt u be fuckin pissed

[randomguy949]

Na, dont worry man, its perfectly fine and normal to watch porn, while still having a girlfirend.

Im assuming she doesnt pleasure you regularly, from you saying you watch stuff, so really, who else is there to release your "tensions"... that girl on the computer screen of course :D

[Arsenicpop]

Porn is good. Some times you and the woman cant do any thing...normally 1 week out of the month, if you get my drift. Besides my gf was a complete virgin before i got to her, she watches porn more than a 14yr old boy, and shes now the queen of blow jobs in my opinion. And i do enjoy watching porn with with her as well.

[BlAcCbArBi3101]

Im a gurl
i think porn makes a realtionship better to me
Like its fuccin arousing
and it makes you wanna make your own video
(which i already did)
buti think its tha best though

[r00t34d]

Shit I jerk it like at least 6 times a day.
I've pulled my pork twice since i've been typing this.
kthx.

A simple way to check if you watch too much porn is
A)Get a boner.
B)Go to Youtube.
3)Lookup strip tease and try to bust.
If you bust then you're all good, but will probably blow your load early.
If you cant even get a boner, then you're fucked.

Ummmmm that's gross man... and there's no way you can jerk off 6 times ... you're dick would be so raw and shit man... lol i tried atleast 3-4 times before and my dick was fucking hurting man... no way you can do 6 times... no fucking way

[Palmer]

Ummmmm that's gross man... and there's no way you can jerk off 6 times ... you're dick would be so raw and shit man... lol i tried atleast 3-4 times before and my dick was fucking hurting man... no way you can do 6 times... no fucking way

haha, I had a friend tell me that he beat off 5 to 6 times per day... and I told him the same thing you just said. xD

I don't know how anyone would have time for that... Honestly?

Plus after a while you will be too used to it so it will be harder to get it up regularly.
Either way, that's pretty fucked up.
lol

[r00t34d]

Its impossible anyways, lol, this guy is just en idiot that's all :)

[randomguy949]

Shit I jerk it like at least 6 times a day.
I've pulled my pork twice since i've been typing this.
kthx.

A simple way to check if you watch too much porn is
A)Get a boner.
B)Go to Youtube.
3)Lookup strip tease and try to bust.
If you bust then you're all good, but will probably blow your load early.
If you cant even get a boner, then you're fucked.

hahaa i did the test

Got the erection quite easily, and blew a load in 6 to 8 mins

Thank god :D im not a freak who has to watch fucked up shit