View Full Version : advice on how to change her parents minds
illegal543
November 19th, 2008, 09:27 PM
ok so i dated a girl for a while and we got really serious and shit but then her parents found out we had sex and now theyve told me that if i ever contact her again theyll take it as harrassment and shit and shes 16 (im 16 too) so i really cant talk to her for 2 years without risking gettin in trouble, and i know she loves me but her parents have made it clear that if she communicates with me in any way that they will take everything from her and pretty much not let her out of their sights. anyone have any advice on how i could change her parents minds about us dating?
deathlord888
November 19th, 2008, 09:39 PM
let her parents cool down for a bit
then say you will not sleep with her because you felt bad
then just continue railing her
CHEETZzz
November 19th, 2008, 09:46 PM
damn dude that fucking sucks
i'd suggest sneaking out to see her in the very late night/early morning on weekends
and maybe sit down and actually talk with her parents after they've cooleddown
that'd suck a shitload but maybe yield results
superflysuperwhite
November 20th, 2008, 12:09 PM
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Black Napalm
November 20th, 2008, 03:16 PM
Talk to the parents. Parents are usually very protective about their daughter. Let them know that they can trust you.
Raditude
November 21st, 2008, 02:31 AM
Been in that situation before. Unfortunately, there's no easy answer that works every time. My advice is try to talk to her over Myspace or something, and then meet her somewhere other than either of your houses. That'd probably work the best. Just don't get her pregnant, or your cover's blown.
Striker1989
November 21st, 2008, 02:38 AM
ok, so your both 16? where do you live? idk if the law is different, but in Montana 16 is legal without consent. Definitely check the law on it though.
Warpurlgis
November 21st, 2008, 09:28 PM
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rofl.........
Black Napalm
November 22nd, 2008, 05:31 AM
I still say get the parents to trust you. That way you don't have to sneak around or anything.
Honestly, would a relationship really go very far if it is always in secret?
superflysuperwhite
November 22nd, 2008, 10:45 AM
or just break it off because you're 16 and dont really know what love is and itll eventually fail anyways then youll find someone else later on and completley foget about her.
Imperium
November 22nd, 2008, 05:22 PM
Have sex with her parents, that'll bring them around.
CHEETZzz
November 23rd, 2008, 08:57 PM
Have sex with her parents, that'll bring them around.
The award for funniest reply in any thread goes to
Imperium.
Take a bow, buddy. lol
oros
December 3rd, 2008, 02:37 PM
that happend to me too.
My GFs parrents didn't let her sleep at my place or the otherway, so we could not really have sex. I can say that our relationship didn't last very long even though i love her. thought it would be better that way, cuz i don't want to hurt her either by cheating on her.
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