should i break up with her?

[Exploding_viper]

this girl and me are goin out. we really like each other.
when are always talkin all flirty and kissin and shit on the fone, and when there is only a few people around.
but at school its like she is afriad to show emotion and actin cool to her firends, like kinda blowing me off and not takin the time to stop and talk. its not taht she dont want people to know we are goin out, cuz everyone knows anyways ive talked to her about it, and she aint done it as much, but its still kinda irritating cuz she lives across town and we dont get to see each other but school
im not talkin about like grabbin each other and all that shit, just stoppin to talk.

should i
a) give it time
b)put her in check
c) break up with her

i dont want to break up with her, but seeing as im only 14, i thought i would get some advice first.

[deathlord888]

all chicks are like that at 14 man

and just talk to her about it, then if she keeps going break up with her

how long have you been dating anyway?

[Exploding_viper]

uhmm. a little over a month, and this is the longest ive gone without screwin a girl, but thats good cuz im tryin to get my shit together.
and i did talk to her about it like 4-5 days ago

[deathlord888]

if she doesnt like you enough to stop and talk to you in the halls then she is not worth it


and banging chicks at 14 haha wow man

[Exploding_viper]

naww i just like to eat pussy.
but its like i said, i did talk to her bout it, and i think she is startin to realize that every1 dont care if she n me are datin. (im like a weird ass cross-breed with like the oddest shit in me, and she is half black and got all this other wierd shit in her too, but she looks black) and she is startin to open up at school.

n/e ways, i just got off the fone with her mom. she was cussin at me cuz my girl bought me like some new shoes and some clothes ($200 worth) and she hadnt even met me.
but that is my moms fault cuz she dont trust me.

i was gonna go over to her house, where her 2 brothers, mom and step-dad, and sister live and were all there, but my mom wouldnt let me go over there cuz she thinks i will screw around with all them people there.
but ive only fucked once, but ive ate pussy alot.

[deathlord888]

still getting laid once is good for 14

[Exploding_viper]

well i was hopin that someone else besides deathlord888 would respond, (no 'fence)
but ill give it time.

[CHEETZzz]

dude, girls at age 14 are very prone to changing alot in the next couple years.
so what she's acting like one day might change in the course of weeks or days..

that's how i've experienced it... so i'd say give her some time and be friendly with her and try to talk to her in school, like small stuff first, then like hug her and shit, you know.

and are you in 8th grade still? cuz highschool is where people change dude....

[Exploding_viper]

no im a freshman

[deathlord888]

girls in grade nine are just trying to make an amazing impression girls are still messed in gr 10, better in gr 11 and fine by gr 12

[Exploding_viper]

ok, cuz i was talkin to the upperclass men, and it was the same way with their gurls at my age

[deathlord888]

ya it pretty much is, in a month or 2 it might change tho because she is more used to the highschool enviroment

[numerator-91]

you need to sort the bitch out quicksmart. 5 together across the face will let her know how things are meant to be

[CHEETZzz]

you need to sort the bitch out quicksmart. 5 together across the face will let her know how things are meant to be

fuck yeah!


and OK i wanted to check what grade you were in...

yeah freshmen change alot after their first year, so at this point she'll [and you'll] be discovering who you really are in terms of what you can accomplish, what you like, and what's important to you.

After the bitch settles down a bit she should be much more... composed and sane...

[Exploding_viper]

yeah today we was chasin each other down and i caught her and wrestled her into a corner on some stairs and started spankin her and listen off the things she did that made me mad. first she was mad, but at the end she was moanin softly. BLAM! victory!
yeah its gettin better at school really fast. who would have thunk it. its my southern charm

[NightRider]

should i
a) give it time
b)put her in check
c) break up with her

i dont want to break up with her, but seeing as im only 14, i thought i would get some advice first.[/QUOTE]

Well...First off that is kinda young and I would agree she probably hasn't matured yet man dont get to clingy if you know what I mean give her space. Pretend like shes not even there and she will come to you.

[techtiger]

ahhh 14 i remember those days..... good fun, anyways, let it go... dating honestly doesnt start till you both can drive.... yea it may seem like it but trust me.... just let it go things change so much

[HSBurn]

my friend had the same problem a couple of years ago. he left her alone for 3-6 months and then he could get her to do anything he wanted.

i think you should just forget your problems and start smoking and drinking...thats what i did at 14 and i didnt turn out as bad as most of the people in my class did.

[SomeAssemblyRequired]

i think you should just forget your problems and start smoking and drinking...thats what i did at 14 and i didnt turn out as bad as most of the people in my class did.

True that man.
Just chill, have a beverage and a lung lolly.:) it will inevitably work out some way or another.

[freetibet]

ya I say it doesn't really matter till you can drive.

btw where do you have sex and eat pussy if you can't drive? I can't imagine finding a private place unless you got a ride, was bangin the neighbor, or something third thing i can't think of cuz it's f*cking 2 am

[Exploding_viper]

i live in a small town and lunch is an hour long and its open campus

[borderpetrol]

ahhh 14 i remember those days..... good fun, anyways, let it go... dating honestly doesnt start till you both can drive.... yea it may seem like it but trust me.... just let it go things change so much

thats how I feel dude, there was this girl (im in 10th grade now ) but all throughout freshman year we would fool around nothing like intamate persay but its like it never worked, she ended up running off with another guy. Who I still wish dead to this day. And at that point I became an asshole to everyone, lost a shitload of friends because It was "my fault" according to her, that she left. so consequesntly im gonna wait until I can get that car, almost there like 8 months. see im not one of those guys that gets into a relationship for the sex I actually want to be in that position where things just fall into place. so I guess im the one at fault when she's the one that left, but one things set straight is the current boyfriend needs to be dead. Fuck highschool.

[Zamato Elite]

Break up with her for sure. In fact, I urge everyone who is currently in a relationship to break up. It is time we all stand up and proclaim: "FUCK SOCIETY!" Why do we enter relationships? Why do we force ourselves to follow the same *****g unsatisfactory templet? We do it because of social strains and expectations. If you like a girl, just chill with her. If you want to fuck, then do it. Why do you need to be in an "agreement" or "relationship"? Makes no sense to me. A relationship is a mutual agreed ownership of each other. We assume ownership over the other person. Whether you wish to come to terms with this or not, it's your decision, but it will forever exist. Why would you get upset if your partner cheated on you? Because you lost ownership.

I refuse to date through relationships. I'm just that much of a rebel. Please join me, and let's rebuild our horrifically dysfunctional society from the ground up!

[Ninjaofdeth]

that literally made me laugh

[ramalamafafafa]

Viper, i haven't read the thread, and im going to give you the same advice i give everyone in this forum: Just do her in the ass and forget about her.

[Zamato Elite]

that literally made me laugh

What? My post?

[Exploding_viper]

Viper, i haven't read the thread, and im going to give you the same advice i give everyone in this forum: Just do her in the ass and forget about her.

wow i lol at you.

PROBLEM SOLVED IM SEINGLE

[Ninjaofdeth]

What? My post?

yeah. at first. until i realized that i have basically a relationship without saying its a relationship. friends with benefits one might say.

sooo, i guess i agree with you. pussy without commitment is much better than struggle for pussy through commitment

sorry if i put words in your mouth there. if so, tell me

[oros]

dude, you shall not break up with her if that's the only problem.
She might just want to show you that she have other people that she loves and is loved by to make herself more attractive to you, who knows.