I need some advice.....please!!!

[Black Napalm]

I have a little predicament here. See, there is this girl I met recently. I can't even describe how much I like her. The thing is she lives in Illinois and I live in Wisconsin. Her family (Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, and her) came up to the town I live in, which is a 3 hour drive for them. We met and hung out that entire day. The strangest thing about this is that I was completely comfortable hanging out with her. It was strange because I have always been shy. This stupid shyness has really done its damage when it comes to getting a girl, I hate it!!!!! But I had no problem with her. We talked and laughed the whole time, it was great. I have to say it was actually the most fun I have had in a long time!!!

I am getting a strong vibe that she really likes me. I am not sure what to do since long distance relationship usually don't last very long. But there is some very good news. She and her family will move up here eventually!!!!

That is why they come up here, to fix up the house. I don't know how long it will take but I hope not too long.

I don't know what to do about this. I was hoping to stay very close friends until they move up here and then ask her out.

I would greatly appreciate any help with this.

WARNING: Rant Below
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Please don't reply if you are just gonna be a dick!!! Why do people have to be asses to everyone? Does it help you sleep at night you arrogant little fucks? Seriously, just don't reply. It's a disgusting waste of everyone's time!!!! If you do make an ass of yourself, I hope you die a slow and painful death!!!!

[numerator-91]

Please don't reply if you are just gonna be a dick!!! Why do people have to be asses to everyone? Does it help you sleep at night you arrogant little fucks? Seriously, just don't reply. It's a disgusting waste of everyone's time!!!! If you do make an ass of yourself, I hope you die a slow and painful death!!!!

you must know me quite well. being an arrogant fuck does actually make me feel good cos most often only those who are truly deserving will cop my shit.

[Black Napalm]

This is exactly what I meant. Why couldn't you have just contributed some advise instead of being a total ASS? Really, tell me why!!!!!

Well you probably have no GOOD reason and are going to make some smart ass reply to this, so I will just ignore you from now on numerator-91. Seriously, I hope horrible things happen to you!

[numerator-91]

i got a reaction without an absurd rant or disparaging remarks about his family, todays a good day

[Shanx]

I think you overreacted Napalm. He didn't really say anything.

As for you situation, the only thing I could really think of is waiting until you can drive (assuming you cant now because I'm only 14) and visiting her or vise versa. Or you could get someone to drive you maybe. Just keep in touch I guess. I really have no ideas.

[deathlord888]

numerator has some good advice on this stuff
but since you chirped him your fucked

[Black Napalm]

Well I don't want to hear advice from an arrogant ass like him anyway. It really pisses me off when people act that way!!!!

And thank you Shanx, any advice helps. I am definitely going to keep in touch with her.

More good news, she will be up here this weekend. Hopefully she has some sort of Email, Facebook, MySpace, etc... so we can keep in touch. Yea, she doesn't have a cellphone, which really sucks!!

Another sweet thing is that her parents are very protective, but they really like me for some reason.

Oh and I can drive but we haven't known each other very long, so visiting her house is out of the picture for now. Also, gas prices suck and I am low on money.

[meat]

calm down man. numerator didnt say anything that needed that kind of reaction. but yea, just wait till she moves up there

[Black Napalm]

Yea, I see that I did react too harsh. He was more joking than anything.

Numerator, I apologize for such a rude reaction to such a harmless response, I am dealing with a lot of crap right now (not literally.....lol!). I am getting pissed off WAY to easily!! Again, I apologize!!!!

I do agree meat, I am going to stay in touch with her until she moves up here, then hopefully get into a more serious relationship.

Here is a preemptive apology if I lash out again with an unneeded angry comment. It's been a horrible, stressful, and painful couple of weeks. I have always had a lot of pent up anger. I once punched a hole in my wall, but that was a very bad day a long time ago.

[ramalamafafafa]

Well, napalm, i was just going to add a few slightly humourus tags, but since reading this, i have a few things to say. You sir, are a douche. Like, a really massive douche. Like, really, go fuck a knife. Now, if you will excuse me, i have to go add tags, and leave this forum.

[superflysuperwhite]

get her pregnant then she'll just have to be with you!

or tell her to get a cell (she could be lieing to you too O.O)

IM works too.

or just stick it in her butt.

long distant relation ships can work sometimes, if you try.

or kill her and keep her under your bed.

try and make an excuse to go visit her, "so what goes on in illinois? really? sounds like a blast, i should come and experiance that!" (dont say it like that though)

or kid-nap her and run away to mexico.

[Shanx]

theres nothing in IL lol. I live in this shithole.


Its not all bad, its just a little *****g somtimes. thats why i will usually go downtown with friends or somthing...or get stoned.

[Black Napalm]

Yea, If I can keep in touch with her, I will know if anything fun is going on. I'd gladly drive 3 hours if it means being with her. Thanks for all of the advice so far, it has helped.

Now does anybody agree that ramalamafafafa is a son-of-a-bitch bastard that has no fucking life. Don't say I am over-reacting here, he fucking called me a douche. I hope he dies the most painful death possible, comes back to live, and dies an even more painful death. I hope he sees this because I have something to say to him.

You, Sr. are a miserable little dweeb that will probably become the 50 year old virgin. Is this what you do? Cutting down anybody just so you feel better about your pathetic thing you call a life. I hope you get depressed, jump off a building, and live in a world of pain forever. Have a horrible day!

How do I remove the tags? Can anybody help? If anybody can remove them I would greatly
appreciate it.


Also, ramalamafafafa is the one who added the tags. Just to clarify that I did not do that. Something really needs to be done about him.

[numerator-91]

obviously he taunted you to see what kind of absurd reaction he'd get

[Black Napalm]

Yea, I know but the tags were a little much. They need to be taken off!!!

[Shanx]

blah. Tags are tags. Theres practically no chance they will be taken off and honestly, I dont think it fucking matters. lol

[crazyassmetalhead]

seriously, now he's gonna come back and fuck with you more.
it's what he does, it brings him great joy and entertainment.
if your gonna be so sensitive about such things it's best not to ask for advice on the internet from complete stangers.

as for the actual question...... ya just try to get in touch with her and talk to her more, if she's moving there no sense in rushing shit, plus moving three hours away from all your friends and shit kinda sucks so it'll be good for her to know you and such as a friend first, just make sure you let her know you wanna be more than just friends eventually.

[ramalamafafafa]

Fucking hell that was easy, even athae had less of a go at me, and he's a complete dick. Whatever, "Black Napalm" (Super shit name), you pretty much asked for it in that last parograph of your initial post man. Now, if you will excuse me, i have zombie bunnies to tend to.

[Black Napalm]

Could you please stop with this crap? What is your problem? What the hell did I do to you? Please, explain to me why you feel the need to be an ass!

Oh and I really don't care what you think of my name.
Well, what about yours? "ramalamafafafa", hmmmmm...okay....

Please remove the tags, they were very unnecessary. I mean, you've had your fun, so I fail to see the need to leave the tags there.

I would appreciate it if you could at least do that.

[numerator-91]

Fuck your a cock munching super pussy to be caring that much about what ramalamafafafa says. as for the tags, they gonna be flooded now.

[Black Napalm]

Fuck you an fuck this thread. Don't bother posting anymore. I'm not coming back to this so it is completely pointless.

I hope you bastards have the worst fucking life possible!!!

[ramalamafafafa]

Well, since you asked nicely....................

[Black Napalm]

Thank you!!! I truly appreciate the cooperation.

Now if numerator could stop being an ass. I already fucking apologized for an unneeded angry response and he comes back with this shit. I heard numerator has some good advice but I really don't think I want anything to do with an arrogant little prick like that. I suppose I will just have to ignore him the best I can.

[ramalamafafafa]

Seriously, know who not to insult here:

1) People know and respect numerator

2) Nobody knows or respects you

3) Numerator is a mod, i belive he can ban you from several forums

4) People will fuck with you, but when you add bullshit like the last bit of that initial post, people will think you are just a dick (like a2thae).

[ramalamafafafa]

Fuck your a cock munching super pussy to be caring that much about what ramalamafafafa says. as for the tags, they gonna be flooded now.

He has a point there...........

[Shanx]

Seriously, know who not to insult here:

1) People know and respect numerator

2) Nobody knows or respects you

3) Numerator is a mod, i belive he can ban you from several forums

4) People will fuck with you, but when you add bullshit like the last bit of that initial post, people will think you are just a dick (like a2thae).

Im gonna say...I agree.

It appears you dont know numerator very well. You have to be around a bit longer and get to know him...doubt he will feel the same way though.

[ramalamafafafa]

Ya mean me or Black Napalm?

[numerator-91]

black napalm is one of the biggest overeacting cock gobblers i have ever seen

[ramalamafafafa]

Agreed........

[deathlord888]

Fuck you an fuck this thread. Don't bother posting anymore. I'm not coming back to this so it is completely pointless.


Thank you!!! I truly appreciate the cooperation.



i thought you were not coming back? you got my hopes up you whining little bitch

[ramalamafafafa]

Wow, he really does resemble a 5 year old throwing a tantrum.

[Black Napalm]

Damn, I though I resembled a 4 year old. I guess I gotta try harder.

[deathlord888]

i thought you were not going to check this anymore?

[Black Napalm]

Well I wont so this thread can be closed.

[deathlord888]

why wont you check now? you have before

[MISFlT]

yea dont over react, people talk shit on this cuz they just wanna fuck around so chill

about that girl, really what you should do is hang out with her a couple more times, 2x at the least, then just tell her how you feel, seriously shit works out so much better once u can get that outta the way