she likes me, she likes me not

[thedragonforce]

Ok there is this girl i know from 8th grade who i have been talking to since than through text but everytime i try to ask her out she doesnt respond abut all the time she sends me texts like

"how do you see us in 5 years?
1 being enemies
10 being luvers"

then i send her a text saying 7-10
then she says 8-10

so do you think she likes me or not

[superflysuperwhite]

wait......... shes in 8th grade and you are in what grade?

or you've known her since 8th grade?

and stop texting her you pussy and ask her to her face..... MY GOD.

[thedragonforce]

wait......... shes in 8th grade and you are in what grade?

or you've known her since 8th grade?

and stop texting her you pussy and ask her to her face..... MY GOD.

Ive known her since 8th grade and i dont know exactly where she lives

[superflysuperwhite]

have you asked her to chill or just to go out with you.

cus you do know you dont just ask a girl to be your girlfreind right off right? you gotta hang out and shit for a bit, just chill.

then after a while you ask her out, to her face, not over the pnone, not by text, aim, msn, facebook, myspace, letter, telagraph, telagram, email, fax, pigieon. TO HER FACE!

that way even if she doesnt want to, she might feel bad and say yes.... then dump you the next week but hey, better to love and lose, then to never loved at all. lol jk (kind of)

and if you do find out where she lives..... dont just show up at her house.... thats how restraining orders come about.

[thedragonforce]

have you asked her to chill or just to go out with you.

cus you do know you dont just ask a girl to be your girlfreind right off right? you gotta hang out and shit for a bit, just chill.

then after a while you ask her out, to her face, not over the pnone, not by text, aim, msn, facebook, myspace, letter, telagraph, telagram, email, fax, pigieon. TO HER FACE!

that way even if she doesnt want to, she might feel bad and say yes.... then dump you the next week but hey, better to love and lose, then to never loved at all. lol jk (kind of)

and if you do find out where she lives..... dont just show up at her house.... thats how restraining orders come about.

thanx 4 the advice glad to see not everyone is a total dick on AC

[superflysuperwhite]

thanx 4 the advice glad to see not everyone is a total dick on AC

oh no I'm a dick, probably one of the biggest on the site but......

a majority of people on this site just seem like they have no idea how to play the game AT ALL.

so i've decided to lend some knowledge that will actually help instead of something like.

"you cant push things" "if its meant to be its ment to be" bullshit like that.

if the girl shows interest GO FOR IT!!!!

a qoute from one of my favorite songs. " Only an Idoit would say "right on i'll see ya" just to go home and think what could have been"- if we want to by Big D and The Kids Table.

and i can not stress this enough TO HER FACE.

TO HER FACE DAMN IT!!!!!!!!

but after a few dates, you wanna see what you guys are like hanging out... outside of a school setting and just the two of you, and you dont wanna push it, being hastey can be a bad thing.

but also dont try putting it off either, I mean if you feel comfortable enough, and you have a good feeling about it and she seems really into you after chillin then by all means go for it the first time, but just wait till the dates over.... cus well it would be really akward if you say ask her in the middle of like a movie and she says no.

[fly2pluto]

lmao,

superflysuperwhite, is awesome. hahahaha.

i suggest you listen to what he has to say. :p

[Palm3R]

oh... I thought you were talking about an 8th grader you know... you worded that kinda weird...

well yeah, go for it. :D

[a2thae]

oh no I'm a dick, probably one of the biggest on the site but......

a majority of people on this site just seem like they have no idea how to play the game AT ALL.

so i've decided to lend some knowledge that will actually help instead of something like.

"you cant push things" "if its meant to be its ment to be" bullshit like that.

if the girl shows interest GO FOR IT!!!!

a qoute from one of my favorite songs. " Only an Idoit would say "right on i'll see ya" just to go home and think what could have been"- if we want to by Big D and The Kids Table.

and i can not stress this enough TO HER FACE.

TO HER FACE DAMN IT!!!!!!!!

but after a few dates, you wanna see what you guys are like hanging out... outside of a school setting and just the two of you, and you dont wanna push it, being hastey can be a bad thing.

but also dont try putting it off either, I mean if you feel comfortable enough, and you have a good feeling about it and she seems really into you after chillin then by all means go for it the first time, but just wait till the dates over.... cus well it would be really akward if you say ask her in the middle of like a movie and she says no.

Damn dude I agree with you on the thing about a majority of people on this site don't know the game. I'd go as far to say a majority of people in the WORLD don't know how to play the game.

Oh, and I would say, try not to come across as a pussy shy dude.

If you ask her to her face (which I highly reccommend) do it with some fucking CONFIDENCE Be a man. Confidence combined with humor is a KNOCKOUT combination.

If you lack the cahones to ask her to chill with you in person, then I'll give you a tip on doing it on the phone.

Go by her, start talking to her, and get you/her comfortable. Make sure she is having a good time, and laughing etc. Then end the conversation (I mean YOU end it) unusually early.

That normally messes up a girl, and she will probably go home thinking "Does he still like me? Did I do something wrong?" And she will LOVE you for it. You weren't like the 100 other guys who would've stayed there desperately as long as possible.

(since you're texting her I assume you have her #) Next, talk via phone, and set up somewhere to meet. Say something along the lines of:

"Hey, I had fun last night and I was thinking we should get together for some stimulating conversation and a cup of something delicious for half an hour.(low risk and you sound classy, but you put yourself at risk for a rejection)"

"Hey I had a nice time last night so I was thinking we should get together and make friends. If nothing else, you'd seem like you'd make a nice friend"(this one fucks with her mind too because she is secretly thinking something along the lines of "Wow is this guy different? Why would he want to be my friend first? I hope he still likes me"..)

If she says "no," to that one, then you could say something like "Oh, you don't like it when people just want to become friends eh? I guess I misjudged you."

"Hi, we should get together and do <tea?> for half an hour. That way if you turn into a total freakshow we won't be together longer than we have to." (this messes with her mind in the sense that you are conveying that YOU are selecting her)

If she says "no," to that one, then you could say something like "Ha, I gave you a once in a lifetime chance, I can't believe I was willing to lower my standards.."

That's not the same as to her face, but at least it isn't that texting shit.

If you want any date tips and shit just post on this same thread.

[hunter2011]

a2thae, if i have a friend who i am completly cool with, we hang out, talk on the phone and stuff, ive known her for a while like a couple months and she sits with me in the classes we do have together, do you think i should just go for it and ask her out or what

[thedragonforce]

I only ask these things when im uncertain witch is not often

[Sir Toke Alot]

kinda sound retarted, Girls never want to be mean.. so realize this, there are more fish in the sea

[a2thae]

a2thae, if i have a friend who i am completly cool with, we hang out, talk on the phone and stuff, ive known her for a while like a couple months and she sits with me in the classes we do have together, do you think i should just go for it and ask her out or what

hmm. What I would do if I was in that situation is, I would go do something fun with her, and bring her back to my house. When we get there I would say something like "Aren't you gonna walk me to my door?" and once we got there I would say "I gotta wake up early but...O.K. I guess you can come in"(this is great because your saying it as if she asked to come in)

and go from there(I assume you have a little experience)

Before you ask her out, when you're hanging out with her and you think she is comfortable with you ALONE.... play with her hair, and look into her eyes and say "your hair is so soft" Then keep talking/playing with her hair. If she lets you do this, that means she is open to the idea of kissing you, so if you are playing with her hair, go in for the kill--err kiss and then ask her to chill with you.

You have to be willing to accept the fact that you could get rejected, and you have to be able to just shrug it off and go find a different girl. Once you have that mindset things ought to come easier for you. Don't let it bother you if you get rejected.

hope these easy and small tips help ya out