how should i do this

[superflysuperwhite]

Okay, i'm looking to kida settle down for a while, i havent been in a relationship in two years, there been no need.

thing is, im a bit nevous going up to random girls, just out of no-where because im 18, and most of you know my view on under age bitches.

now i dont want to start talking to a girl and after a while find out shes 15 and sit there and be like "bye bye" and run and look like either a weirdo or an asshole. and i dont want them to be like "oh its okay, im mature" and just wont leave. and then i start feeling bad cus i get their hopes up or some shit.


how the hell would i get out of this with a clean conscience.

IM NOT ASKING HOW TO GET A GIRL, I JUST NEED TO KNOW HOW NOT TO LOOK LIKE AN ASS IF I START TALKING TO SOME ONE WHO I DONT RELIZE IS UNDER AGE!!!!

[Kasnia]

You could always ask around first, like see if you two have mutual friends and if your friend knows the girl's age. Or you could just ask her.

[DollShank]

You're not gonna find the perfect someone just because you're finally ready. Just wait. You'll know who she is after a while. Gives you time to get your life together and what not.

[The Anarchist]

Here's what you do...

1. Make a top 10 list of all the things that you feel define who you are.
2. Be those things all ways and don't compromise.

When you're real the opposite sex will sense it. You'll attract the type of girls who you will enjoy being with.

[fly2pluto]

You can't go out looking for love, youll often end up empty handed. Love will come at the most inconvenient of times, or when you least expect it. Just don't give up hope and try to have fun. Go do things you enjoy doing (ex: concerts? movies?) if you meet someone there you will have a common interest, and you'll have a good convo starter too. Hope it goes well for you though!

[superflysuperwhite]

..........THanks Kas, you're the only one who answered my question.

@ dollshank, what dopes that have to do with what im asking.
@ the anarchist- good advice, i just dont need it.
@fly2pluto- thanks for telling me things i already know.

I'm asking how do i get out of a situation where i wind up talking to some one who is too young?

you people are talking to me like i've never talked to a girl before.

[SuperSkunk]

Age is nothing but silly numbers. But everyone has there own beliefs.

And I'm in no way supporting pedophilia

[DollShank]

..........THanks Kas, you're the only one who answered my question.

@ dollshank, what dopes that have to do with what im asking.
@ the anarchist- good advice, i just dont need it.
@fly2pluto- thanks for telling me things i already know.

I'm asking how do i get out of a situation where i wind up talking to some one who is too young?

you people are talking to me like i've never talked to a girl before.

The way you made it sound was like you hadn't. Try reading what you wrote again.

"now i dont want to start talking to a girl and after a while find out shes 15 and sit there and be like "bye bye" and run and look like either a weirdo or an asshole. and i dont want them to be like "oh its okay, im mature" and just wont leave. and then i start feeling bad cus i get their hopes up or some shit."

[superflysuperwhite]

did you not read the first part, i havent been in a relashoinship in two years, there has been no need.

that means i dont have to be in a relationship to fuck, which means I can handlke myself with girls.

and do you not get the question, i dont want to go up to someone and talk to them, only to find out they are 15 and get stuck in an awkward situation, that could get me arrested.

[fly2pluto]

try to go places where underage people won't normally be?

idk, maybe a bar or something.

[SuperSkunk]

You can't go to a bar if your 18... duh... hahah

[Kasnia]

You can't go to a bar if your 18... duh... hahah

Maybe for you, but there are bars around here that let you in if you're 18. You just can't order drinks.

[fly2pluto]

thanks kasnia. you knew what i was talking about.

[iwanttokillyou]

get fucking wasted.
it always works

[iwanttokillyou]

Maybe for you, but there are bars around here that let you in if you're 18. You just can't order drinks.

man that sux i feel sorry for americans
to have sex =18
drink=21
wtf
here its
sex =16
drink =18

[Exploding_viper]

ask her "what kind of car do you drive" easy

[JRO]

Iam kinda in the same situation man...it sucks.. tho ive been without a gf in 17 months..and i do know how to talk to girls.. I just see so many flaws in them.. it makes me not want to be with them..lol

[JRO]

man that sux i feel sorry for americans
to have sex =18
drink=21
wtf
here its
sex =16
drink =18

well you can get into bars here at 18 to.. I live in a military city...hahaha

[superflysuperwhite]

Iam kinda in the same situation man...it sucks.. tho ive been without a gf in 17 months..and i do know how to talk to girls.. I just see so many flaws in them.. it makes me not want to be with them..lol


uuuuhhhmm do you, like everyone else here, not know how to read? I know how to talk to girls, and dont give a shit about flaws for the most part.

and thats your problem, you're not going to find anyone who's perfect, everyone has a shit load of flaws. you just pointed two out about yourself.

really advice. get over yourself because you're probably no one special, take what you can get and be happy with it.

best way to talk to a girl.... just talk, dont really think about it. after that its whicked easy.

and once you actually have sex, your standards go down

[anarchythenextworld]

look man just go up to her tell her u didnt mean to get their hopes up but u got a problem with their age

[blindskater2846]

man that sux i feel sorry for americans
to have sex =18
drink=21
wtf
here its
sex =16
drink =18

you don't have to be 18 to have sex. if your 18 you cant have sex with some one younger then you.

[fly2pluto]

i thought that if you were 18 you could have sex with like, 17 year olds. but not any younger?? I thought that there was a certain limit.

[superflysuperwhite]

EH w/e ive thought about it and well, im going to college next year and.

would you bring sand to the beach?

[Warpurlgis]

fly2pluto they are not americans or something plus iwanttokillyou is retarded. And you cant have sex with a minor and the the minor age is 15 below i think

[Quotehere7]

..........THanks Kas, you're the only one who answered my question.

@ dollshank, what dopes that have to do with what im asking.
@ the anarchist- good advice, i just dont need it.
@fly2pluto- thanks for telling me things i already know.

I'm asking how do i get out of a situation where i wind up talking to some one who is too young?

you people are talking to me like i've never talked to a girl before.

Mate, I deal with this very simply. Have my fun, get out of there, and if she's awesome in bed or close enough to the age line, stay with her. If not, make sure she's not at your house/car. I sincerely doubt this is the first time you've run into this problem.

[a2thae]

Hmm, I would say the best way to walk away from that shit with a clear conscience would say something like "If I'm not married, give me a call when you turn legal" wink at her, and classily walk away.

You could also just flat out ask her how old she is, a good time to do it would be after you find out the name (whether she tells you, or you ask, (or she asks you, you state your age or wittily reply something like 99..but i lie so good looking gals will talk to me))

Sorry If I'm a bit late on the post hahaha